"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The confessional

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Psycho`Sexual

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I think, it would be very helpful to this website if we had a confessional forum.

Perhaps it could just be a stickied Thread, if you dont want to go to the trouble of making a forum.

But i consider it very importantly for becoming DJ's to talk about their AFC behaviour. Talking about your problems DOES help to face them.

Also soon the forum would grow, filled with stories, and when an AFC comes here, he wont feel as bad about having AFCish tendencies.

Thusly he will be much more likely to notice aspects about himself wich he doesnt like, and therefore would be on a road to recovery much faster.

As opposed to being faced with DJ "masters" and all sorts f smart people giving excellent advice, the afc will come to associate with the other members of the forums, thereby being himself more honest, and less offended at being flamed.


All in all, tihs will help drastically with improving forum quality, and also helping a LOT of the people coming here to face their problems and grow.

Sort of like a support group for rape victims, except with AFC's.


Let me know what you people think.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nah, I think we should sticky "Your Most AFC move" and "Most Obvious Come-On Missed." No flames are in there, just people going "ah man, same thing happened to me, I want to kick my own ass!"
 
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Originally posted by iqqi
all you have to do is a search under the person's name, and go to their first post! :p :eek:
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Lol, only problem is, half of the people on this board had thier first post deleted because of the timer on the posts.
 
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Originally posted by iqqi
all you have to do is a search under the person's name, and go to their first post! :p :eek:
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yeah, like some loser AFC is going to do that, and what about the peopel who keep changing their screen names?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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