"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The concept of "fractionization"

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So I have been reading a lot of "Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion and at this point of my life, 24 year old senior in college and a fraternity, I feel that his 'style' is what will get you labeled as the proverbial nice guy. I say this because as opposed to what a lot of youngsters do these days his style is stress free and more, respecting the girl, no PUA techniques and HONESY all while having fun about it and not being soo serious. Problem with this is, I was (now a graduate) around a lot of attractive girls who are used to "****boys" how Zan conducts himself around women would scare the hell out of these 20-24 year old sorority girls because they would automatically take it as if the guy is trying to be in some kind of committed relationship with them off the cuff or a blatant creep (*Zan does state that he winks at random girls and smile--I know its playful, but a lot of these young girls would be put off unless of course they find you hot) I still read Zan Perrion's book as I see a lot of truth in what he says and because my natural instinct is to be the type of man Perrion categorizes as a "ladies man" now I heard a lot about the concept of fractionization and how it is a "manipulative" technique that goes deep inside the mind of a woman, yet I am conflicted (at this stage of my life) about meeting talking to girls Perrion's way or being coy and strategic in how I conduct myself around girls.

any tips guys??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're right. I'm in college as well and would never act that way. Keep reading as its good to test your beliefs but continue to go with your gut. At least in the college setting.
 
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Amante Silvestre said:
As a 24 year old frat boy, you don't need to use "hypnosis techniques" to get women.

All you need is a plate full of margarita Jello shots.
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No longer a frat boy man. Graduated a month ago and now trying to a bit more serious in the dating game and meet actual women rather than the "barbies" I have been around for the past 3 years.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Truth be told.. Now that I'm older and been doing this for a while..

You don't need to be cocky and funny
You don't need to neg
You don't need to time out text messages
You don't need to put on a dominate fascade

All you need is to be confident, fun and escalate.
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I still subscribe to not tolerating disrespect though.
 
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