"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The Cold/Distant/Mysterious vs. the Kino/Funny/Dancer DJ type
- Thread starter Ulex
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TurtleShell
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unless your idea of mysterious is to go to a disco and move about like a real montey python nutcase and not really say a word to anyone, and come back each week doing different things. im sure youd pick up a wacky girl if you kept that up.
i think you can still kino and dance and be mysterious.
Tails
Senior Don Juan
whichever one you succeed the most at being. With the first be careful that you get enough interaction to prove yourself to her, with the second be careful that you are nto so crazy that you drive her away.Originally posted by Ulex
Which one is the ultimate DJ?
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
that's how i'd describe myself, i'd say it works most of hte time w/the girls
altho...i've recall a girl fall for the cold/distant/mysterious type.
one time i went out to a pub w/ attention wh0re w/her friends and EX (cold/distant/mysterious). i think i remember one time she said they went out for half a year...and im sure she's the ***** that broke it off and made him into her friend taht she uses.
i dont know why she broke it off, she's not a slut. but im thinking probabl cuz he got boring pretty quick for her, since he's not really a talker. he tries to be alpha by not talking, altho i never really liked him cuz of that attitude.