"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
The Cold/Distant/Mysterious vs. the Kino/Funny/Dancer DJ type
- Thread starter Ulex
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
TurtleShell
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unless your idea of mysterious is to go to a disco and move about like a real montey python nutcase and not really say a word to anyone, and come back each week doing different things. im sure youd pick up a wacky girl if you kept that up.
i think you can still kino and dance and be mysterious.
Tails
Senior Don Juan
whichever one you succeed the most at being. With the first be careful that you get enough interaction to prove yourself to her, with the second be careful that you are nto so crazy that you drive her away.Originally posted by Ulex
Which one is the ultimate DJ?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
that's how i'd describe myself, i'd say it works most of hte time w/the girls
altho...i've recall a girl fall for the cold/distant/mysterious type.
one time i went out to a pub w/ attention wh0re w/her friends and EX (cold/distant/mysterious). i think i remember one time she said they went out for half a year...and im sure she's the ***** that broke it off and made him into her friend taht she uses.
i dont know why she broke it off, she's not a slut. but im thinking probabl cuz he got boring pretty quick for her, since he's not really a talker. he tries to be alpha by not talking, altho i never really liked him cuz of that attitude.