"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Cliff: Is there an age where you can't date younger girls?

DEEZEDBRAH

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I think what part of the world you're in makes a difference.

I live in Philippines and, for an older guy, it's absolute Heaven here. You have your choice of young girls — age is moot.

If you're in your 50s and you ask a girl in her 20s what she thinks about the age difference, you will always get the same reply: "Age is just a number, it doesn't matter to me. What matters is what kind of person you are." Hands-down, 100% of the time, that is the answer you'll get.

For an older guy, it's absolutely a win-win. Young girls have a better sex drive, more attractive, no menopause, genuinely value your experience/wisdom, and expect you to run the show. Feminists in the States overhype the whole "gold-digger" argument.. sure there are some bad ones who want to take advantage, but they're a tiny representation of the entire dating pool. The vast majority love the idea of being with an older foreigner and view their role as a partner fairly seriously.

All of this can be applied across SE and E Asia. So come on out here, gents, the girls are waiting..

Aren
Agreed but don't get it twisted. Hypergamy is still on tren between breakfast and brunch.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Solomon

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I can report that over the weekend I slept with a 22 year old. I'm nearly 43. My younger self would be amazed...
did you meet her online or at a bar?

I'm curious to know where yall you guys are meeting hot 20 year olds.
 
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