Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The chump may have learned his lesson.

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Anybody remember this guy?

http://imageshack.com/scaled/large/163/67a8.jpg

From this thread?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=194093&highlight=chump

Well, decided to check it out after months of no checking, and after this guy bought her a ring, house, and adopted her kids, they are now broken up, he is "single", and she is in a relationship! Couldn't make this **** up if I tried. :crackup:

He's probably going to be begging her back while she bones someone else. Her puss dried up because he was such a chump. Let this be a lesson. I really feel like emailing the guy, and enlightening him about this woman. What should I say? I don't give a ****, I could send a message to him.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Malice said:
He's probably going to be begging her back while she bones someone else. Her puss dried up because he was such a chump. Let this be a lesson. I really feel like emailing the guy, and enlightening him about this woman. What should I say? I don't give a ****, I could send a message to him.
Experience is the best teacher. Maybe he's learned something.
 

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Malice said:
Anybody remember this guy?

http://imageshack.com/scaled/large/163/67a8.jpg

From this thread?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=194093&highlight=chump

Well, decided to check it out after months of no checking, and after this guy bought her a ring, house, and adopted her kids, they are now broken up, he is "single", and she is in a relationship! Couldn't make this **** up if I tried. :crackup:

He's probably going to be begging her back while she bones someone else. Her puss dried up because he was such a chump. Let this be a lesson. I really feel like emailing the guy, and enlightening him about this woman. What should I say? I don't give a ****, I could send a message to him.

Give him a link to sosuave and tell him to read the DJ bible.
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
Give him a link to sosuave and tell him to read the DJ bible.
Can't do that. He will see the threads about him and his picture plastered all over the place. HAHAHA that would be ****ed up.
 

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zekko said:
Experience is the best teacher. Maybe he's learned something.
He hasn't learned anything because she still has him by his nuts. Who knows what power she has over him if he really bought a house with her. I know for a fact they got a house but whether it's bought or rented I do not know. He may have made a lifelong mistake.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What was this guy thinking?

Marriage is a terrible idea for 75% of the population. I watched 6 close friends go through separations this year. They ranged from a poor couple with two kids, to a couple who made a combined $250,000 this year with one small child. Brainy or just plain stupid, divorce hits everyone and marriage is such a sham these days.

The lesson here is to never try to marry a woman who has a young child from a different guy. Notice I said "young". If the kid is like 16-17 and is ready to get out of the house and not cause too many issues, I think marriage is a better option...but the best option is to not wife up any girl who has a kid. I'd say it was better in the 1980's to do this, and a lot of people did and had success, but today's woman is so entitled, so hypergamous, so selfish, that is a massive risk. Case in point, the b!tch who just left the chump.

Was this woman married before? Don't ever marry a divorced chick. They have already proved that they can't make a marriage work, and what makes you think they'll be any different for you? Like many threads on this board, "b!tches don't change".

I learned the hard way, but I was smart enough to bail and not knock up my wife, who would have no doubt destroyed my life.

Some other rules to follow here:

1. If you are going to "wife-up" and get married, make sure you do it post age-28. Make sure you've known the girl at least 3-5 years and have had plenty of time to analyze their character. Get married young is just a stupid, stupid idea. Your 20's should be spent bangin' random broads and trying to establish your career and become a man.

2. If you are going to have kids, make sure you wait another 2 to 3 years after you have tied the knot. Girls can change a lot in that first year of marriage. Without significant mutual assets, you can still split from your wife and not owe her a dime. I owe my ex NOTHING.

This guy didn't knock her up, which I think would have eventually happened, in within a year, so his only loss was some $$$ and some sanity. I'd say this girl leaving him was maybe a gift in disguise.
 

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switch said:
my reaction : HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA
I must give him some credit. He is being silent about it on facebook. No whining and b!tching. Because if there is any, it's getting posted. I don't think he's totally clueless or AFC, but that p/ssy turned him into one.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Malice said:
He hasn't learned anything because she still has him by his nuts. Who knows what power she has over him if he really bought a house with her. I know for a fact they got a house but whether it's bought or rented I do not know. He may have made a lifelong mistake.
Maybe so, but I still think when this is all done and over with, he'll be a little wiser.
 

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zekko said:
Maybe so, but I still think when this is all done and over with, he'll be a little wiser.
I am betting cash right now he gets back with her. She just needed a break to slut around, suck a few c0cks, then takes him back. It's what these BPD sluts do.
 

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Bwahaha! is he taking a $hit on the floor?!?!

He's got that bad boy look with the jacking and all the tattoos but
that could also just as easily be a magnet for trash.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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