"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The chump may have learned his lesson.

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Anybody remember this guy?

http://imageshack.com/scaled/large/163/67a8.jpg

From this thread?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=194093&highlight=chump

Well, decided to check it out after months of no checking, and after this guy bought her a ring, house, and adopted her kids, they are now broken up, he is "single", and she is in a relationship! Couldn't make this **** up if I tried. :crackup:

He's probably going to be begging her back while she bones someone else. Her puss dried up because he was such a chump. Let this be a lesson. I really feel like emailing the guy, and enlightening him about this woman. What should I say? I don't give a ****, I could send a message to him.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Malice said:
He's probably going to be begging her back while she bones someone else. Her puss dried up because he was such a chump. Let this be a lesson. I really feel like emailing the guy, and enlightening him about this woman. What should I say? I don't give a ****, I could send a message to him.
Experience is the best teacher. Maybe he's learned something.
 

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Malice said:
Anybody remember this guy?

http://imageshack.com/scaled/large/163/67a8.jpg

From this thread?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=194093&highlight=chump

Well, decided to check it out after months of no checking, and after this guy bought her a ring, house, and adopted her kids, they are now broken up, he is "single", and she is in a relationship! Couldn't make this **** up if I tried. :crackup:

He's probably going to be begging her back while she bones someone else. Her puss dried up because he was such a chump. Let this be a lesson. I really feel like emailing the guy, and enlightening him about this woman. What should I say? I don't give a ****, I could send a message to him.

Give him a link to sosuave and tell him to read the DJ bible.
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
Give him a link to sosuave and tell him to read the DJ bible.
Can't do that. He will see the threads about him and his picture plastered all over the place. HAHAHA that would be ****ed up.
 

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zekko said:
Experience is the best teacher. Maybe he's learned something.
He hasn't learned anything because she still has him by his nuts. Who knows what power she has over him if he really bought a house with her. I know for a fact they got a house but whether it's bought or rented I do not know. He may have made a lifelong mistake.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What was this guy thinking?

Marriage is a terrible idea for 75% of the population. I watched 6 close friends go through separations this year. They ranged from a poor couple with two kids, to a couple who made a combined $250,000 this year with one small child. Brainy or just plain stupid, divorce hits everyone and marriage is such a sham these days.

The lesson here is to never try to marry a woman who has a young child from a different guy. Notice I said "young". If the kid is like 16-17 and is ready to get out of the house and not cause too many issues, I think marriage is a better option...but the best option is to not wife up any girl who has a kid. I'd say it was better in the 1980's to do this, and a lot of people did and had success, but today's woman is so entitled, so hypergamous, so selfish, that is a massive risk. Case in point, the b!tch who just left the chump.

Was this woman married before? Don't ever marry a divorced chick. They have already proved that they can't make a marriage work, and what makes you think they'll be any different for you? Like many threads on this board, "b!tches don't change".

I learned the hard way, but I was smart enough to bail and not knock up my wife, who would have no doubt destroyed my life.

Some other rules to follow here:

1. If you are going to "wife-up" and get married, make sure you do it post age-28. Make sure you've known the girl at least 3-5 years and have had plenty of time to analyze their character. Get married young is just a stupid, stupid idea. Your 20's should be spent bangin' random broads and trying to establish your career and become a man.

2. If you are going to have kids, make sure you wait another 2 to 3 years after you have tied the knot. Girls can change a lot in that first year of marriage. Without significant mutual assets, you can still split from your wife and not owe her a dime. I owe my ex NOTHING.

This guy didn't knock her up, which I think would have eventually happened, in within a year, so his only loss was some $$$ and some sanity. I'd say this girl leaving him was maybe a gift in disguise.
 

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switch said:
my reaction : HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA
I must give him some credit. He is being silent about it on facebook. No whining and b!tching. Because if there is any, it's getting posted. I don't think he's totally clueless or AFC, but that p/ssy turned him into one.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Malice said:
He hasn't learned anything because she still has him by his nuts. Who knows what power she has over him if he really bought a house with her. I know for a fact they got a house but whether it's bought or rented I do not know. He may have made a lifelong mistake.
Maybe so, but I still think when this is all done and over with, he'll be a little wiser.
 

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zekko said:
Maybe so, but I still think when this is all done and over with, he'll be a little wiser.
I am betting cash right now he gets back with her. She just needed a break to slut around, suck a few c0cks, then takes him back. It's what these BPD sluts do.
 

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Bwahaha! is he taking a $hit on the floor?!?!

He's got that bad boy look with the jacking and all the tattoos but
that could also just as easily be a magnet for trash.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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