iwanttofight
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Where are you from in Delaware, Im from Delaware too ?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I'm from the suburban part of Wilmington. I live really close to Newark and the UD campus, 15 minute drive at most.iwanttofight said:Where are you from in Delaware, Im from Delaware too ?
My first reply of this update will be to you sir, for reading my whole POS journal haha.The Keem said:Hi BPH, just read yesterday night pretty much your whole thread! man its huge! Anyway just wanted to post at least something about your game..So about how you contact girls i'm thinking jack is right, well not sure if he meant that, but you should not care and not let them have you whenever they want (even if you got nothing on) this may lead to not texting you or calling you because they know you will.
For example the thing with HB Alex : She posted that she is going to have a boyfriend...
so what does that change? Honestly you should not wait for the long sh*t and not always do kino and stuff with her when SHE wants, because even if she on do you want to wait 7 month? I mean do you want the serious sh*t to start in like half a year? For real?
So The Keems advice is: have fun in the game and do not do what she
wants to like unless you want to. I could care sh** about what she wants. Oh, and you should not text some people back coz they don't text you. So tease some more :kick:
By the way, since you do it at school (i don't) whats the relationship between your girls?
Anyway nice thread (and nice workout), had some fun reading, Keep It Up
Sincerly The Keem
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Haha you gotta show me where that is. And props to you for reading all the replies.Jack Wealthy said:I get zero props for reading your whole journal before posting. I am in fact an expert on it. In fact, you said you got your first bj twice. Hoho.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nah, that's HB Cassidy, I'll have to hit her up too.Jack Wealthy said:The second text was unnecessary, but I think you knew that. The whole convo was a bit boring, but it doesn't really matter so long as you get the meet. Read some other text conversations on this forum for an idea of what they should sound like. In Norwegians journal there is a lot, I know I posted up one ages ago.
P.S: Good job bro, it sounds like she's up. Is she the one you offended with that text?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BPH said:11/24/11
EDIT: Read This One
Alright so no workout today because I didn't know the gym closed early. Today was just chilling a little before going to a Thanksgiving dinner at my cousin's.
All was fine and good, albeit a bit dull, but then I learned something that deeply annoyed me, I kept it quiet but I was upset:
Ok so I have this cousin named Austin, he's a sophomore at this school called Caravel. My mom calls me over to show me a picture of his new girlfriend, I recognize her from my Facebook because she's pretty hot. After she leaves Austin and I start chatting and he tells me that he already f***ed her...
My heart sank, I officially don't understand anymore, I feel like he was given something that I deserve.
Since I started pickup, I've gotten myself a great body, become infinitely more social and confident, and gotten some action with some girls. I feel like I'm better than my cousin in these areas, and I just can't understand how he lost his virginity before me, and to a girl who's pretty f***ing hot.
I mean sure, his baseball team won the state championship last year so he has that jock status to him, but this is the same cousin that walks the boardwalk with me at night in Ocean City and disqualifies himself from every hot girl around. The same cousin that posts Facebook statuses about finding a girl, or wanting to be loved, etc. So he gets lucky at a baseball game and meets a hot girl from another school, and then he somehow gets it in. I don't understand!
Somebody explain to me what happened, why am I not at this point? Because after I heard that from him it just put a dampener on my mood...
If you guys read or reply to my journal, now is the time to do it. I am so frustrated right now, both with my school's sh*** female selection, and with the fact that Austin got something I feel I worked hard for and deserved to have.
I don't know, I'm upset, leave me something to look.
Oh and to top it off, just got done texting HB Cassidy, of course she can't hang out over break. FML
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.