iwanttofight
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Where are you from in Delaware, Im from Delaware too ?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'm from the suburban part of Wilmington. I live really close to Newark and the UD campus, 15 minute drive at most.iwanttofight said:Where are you from in Delaware, Im from Delaware too ?
My first reply of this update will be to you sir, for reading my whole POS journal haha.The Keem said:Hi BPH, just read yesterday night pretty much your whole thread! man its huge! Anyway just wanted to post at least something about your game..So about how you contact girls i'm thinking jack is right, well not sure if he meant that, but you should not care and not let them have you whenever they want (even if you got nothing on) this may lead to not texting you or calling you because they know you will.
For example the thing with HB Alex : She posted that she is going to have a boyfriend...
so what does that change? Honestly you should not wait for the long sh*t and not always do kino and stuff with her when SHE wants, because even if she on do you want to wait 7 month? I mean do you want the serious sh*t to start in like half a year? For real?
So The Keems advice is: have fun in the game and do not do what she
wants to like unless you want to. I could care sh** about what she wants. Oh, and you should not text some people back coz they don't text you. So tease some more :kick:
By the way, since you do it at school (i don't) whats the relationship between your girls?
Anyway nice thread (and nice workout), had some fun reading, Keep It Up
Sincerly The Keem
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Haha you gotta show me where that is. And props to you for reading all the replies.Jack Wealthy said:I get zero props for reading your whole journal before posting. I am in fact an expert on it. In fact, you said you got your first bj twice. Hoho.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Nah, that's HB Cassidy, I'll have to hit her up too.Jack Wealthy said:The second text was unnecessary, but I think you knew that. The whole convo was a bit boring, but it doesn't really matter so long as you get the meet. Read some other text conversations on this forum for an idea of what they should sound like. In Norwegians journal there is a lot, I know I posted up one ages ago.
P.S: Good job bro, it sounds like she's up. Is she the one you offended with that text?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BPH said:11/24/11
EDIT: Read This One
Alright so no workout today because I didn't know the gym closed early. Today was just chilling a little before going to a Thanksgiving dinner at my cousin's.
All was fine and good, albeit a bit dull, but then I learned something that deeply annoyed me, I kept it quiet but I was upset:
Ok so I have this cousin named Austin, he's a sophomore at this school called Caravel. My mom calls me over to show me a picture of his new girlfriend, I recognize her from my Facebook because she's pretty hot. After she leaves Austin and I start chatting and he tells me that he already f***ed her...
My heart sank, I officially don't understand anymore, I feel like he was given something that I deserve.
Since I started pickup, I've gotten myself a great body, become infinitely more social and confident, and gotten some action with some girls. I feel like I'm better than my cousin in these areas, and I just can't understand how he lost his virginity before me, and to a girl who's pretty f***ing hot.
I mean sure, his baseball team won the state championship last year so he has that jock status to him, but this is the same cousin that walks the boardwalk with me at night in Ocean City and disqualifies himself from every hot girl around. The same cousin that posts Facebook statuses about finding a girl, or wanting to be loved, etc. So he gets lucky at a baseball game and meets a hot girl from another school, and then he somehow gets it in. I don't understand!
Somebody explain to me what happened, why am I not at this point? Because after I heard that from him it just put a dampener on my mood...
If you guys read or reply to my journal, now is the time to do it. I am so frustrated right now, both with my school's sh*** female selection, and with the fact that Austin got something I feel I worked hard for and deserved to have.
I don't know, I'm upset, leave me something to look.
Oh and to top it off, just got done texting HB Cassidy, of course she can't hang out over break. FML
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.