You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Its not worth it. This site has way more content and has the better price of 0.galmorphus said:It takes about FIVE gigs on my computer, lol!
You can just delete it after though, it is worth it.
I found a summary of the Blueprint which covers it all up to disc 15(there are 20 discs)
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/151590
The other parts are in his signature.
I still recommend watching it though.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My computer has 2gbs of memory and has crashed several times. If I download this monster that takes about 5gbs as stated by a poster, it'll slow down considerably and my parents will tell me to take it off...as they have with other games. Plus, one; what makes the Blueprint so special compared to all the other PUA stuff advertised? And two; why can't I just read the summaries?NorwegianDJ said:I still think that you either know nothing about computers, or you're just in denial. The audio files take 1/10th of the space of the video files. Why can't you even bother to check how much the computer can hold? Just download overnight and put it on a flashdrive. You may even convert the files and listen on your phone. I do not see your problem at all.
Well maybe I'll download it, but I just don't get what makes it so special...NorwegianDJ said:Repeating myself, the audio is only 400-500 mbs. Insert a flashdrive, save it on the flashdrive and download overnight. Problem solved. Do you think a summary of 1-3 pages per section (15/20) can cover 20 hours of material? Take it from us that recommend it, it did change something in us.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's friggin great, highly recommend it. If you get it PM me your gamertag.djghost said:How the game. I haven't played GoW since 1.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Thanks but I pretty much gave up on Kevin, and Neel wronged me so I'm not even looking his way.SouLeeian said:Hey man, just started reading your journal on like pg. 1 so i don't know if you actually solved your problem of your friends not being into this sh!t, but I know how I got my friends into it. The thing is, anyone can PREACH about this sh!t, but the real "Alright let's do this Sh!t!" attitude comes from,
1) Telling your friends "Watch this"
2) You going out there and Cold Approaching
3) Rapid results (And this can be as minuscule as a laugh and A playful touch)
4) Walking back to them like nothing happened and saying "It was that easy"
After that you let them come to you because you can't force them to do it and you don't want to, you want them to do it because they one day decide that they want to be good at the game too. This is so they are doing it for themselves and not something they do whenever your around.
True, but there is something I want to bring up on today's journal.novaknight said:Glad you quit football. Can't ever stand out at something you don't have a passion for. Plus its pretty taxing on your morale too.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.