Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Its not worth it. This site has way more content and has the better price of 0.galmorphus said:It takes about FIVE gigs on my computer, lol!
You can just delete it after though, it is worth it.
I found a summary of the Blueprint which covers it all up to disc 15(there are 20 discs)
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/151590
The other parts are in his signature.
I still recommend watching it though.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
My computer has 2gbs of memory and has crashed several times. If I download this monster that takes about 5gbs as stated by a poster, it'll slow down considerably and my parents will tell me to take it off...as they have with other games. Plus, one; what makes the Blueprint so special compared to all the other PUA stuff advertised? And two; why can't I just read the summaries?NorwegianDJ said:I still think that you either know nothing about computers, or you're just in denial. The audio files take 1/10th of the space of the video files. Why can't you even bother to check how much the computer can hold? Just download overnight and put it on a flashdrive. You may even convert the files and listen on your phone. I do not see your problem at all.
Well maybe I'll download it, but I just don't get what makes it so special...NorwegianDJ said:Repeating myself, the audio is only 400-500 mbs. Insert a flashdrive, save it on the flashdrive and download overnight. Problem solved. Do you think a summary of 1-3 pages per section (15/20) can cover 20 hours of material? Take it from us that recommend it, it did change something in us.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's friggin great, highly recommend it. If you get it PM me your gamertag.djghost said:How the game. I haven't played GoW since 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Thanks but I pretty much gave up on Kevin, and Neel wronged me so I'm not even looking his way.SouLeeian said:Hey man, just started reading your journal on like pg. 1 so i don't know if you actually solved your problem of your friends not being into this sh!t, but I know how I got my friends into it. The thing is, anyone can PREACH about this sh!t, but the real "Alright let's do this Sh!t!" attitude comes from,
1) Telling your friends "Watch this"
2) You going out there and Cold Approaching
3) Rapid results (And this can be as minuscule as a laugh and A playful touch)
4) Walking back to them like nothing happened and saying "It was that easy"
After that you let them come to you because you can't force them to do it and you don't want to, you want them to do it because they one day decide that they want to be good at the game too. This is so they are doing it for themselves and not something they do whenever your around.
True, but there is something I want to bring up on today's journal.novaknight said:Glad you quit football. Can't ever stand out at something you don't have a passion for. Plus its pretty taxing on your morale too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.