Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Its not worth it. This site has way more content and has the better price of 0.galmorphus said:It takes about FIVE gigs on my computer, lol!
You can just delete it after though, it is worth it.
I found a summary of the Blueprint which covers it all up to disc 15(there are 20 discs)
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/151590
The other parts are in his signature.
I still recommend watching it though.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My computer has 2gbs of memory and has crashed several times. If I download this monster that takes about 5gbs as stated by a poster, it'll slow down considerably and my parents will tell me to take it off...as they have with other games. Plus, one; what makes the Blueprint so special compared to all the other PUA stuff advertised? And two; why can't I just read the summaries?NorwegianDJ said:I still think that you either know nothing about computers, or you're just in denial. The audio files take 1/10th of the space of the video files. Why can't you even bother to check how much the computer can hold? Just download overnight and put it on a flashdrive. You may even convert the files and listen on your phone. I do not see your problem at all.
Well maybe I'll download it, but I just don't get what makes it so special...NorwegianDJ said:Repeating myself, the audio is only 400-500 mbs. Insert a flashdrive, save it on the flashdrive and download overnight. Problem solved. Do you think a summary of 1-3 pages per section (15/20) can cover 20 hours of material? Take it from us that recommend it, it did change something in us.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's friggin great, highly recommend it. If you get it PM me your gamertag.djghost said:How the game. I haven't played GoW since 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Thanks but I pretty much gave up on Kevin, and Neel wronged me so I'm not even looking his way.SouLeeian said:Hey man, just started reading your journal on like pg. 1 so i don't know if you actually solved your problem of your friends not being into this sh!t, but I know how I got my friends into it. The thing is, anyone can PREACH about this sh!t, but the real "Alright let's do this Sh!t!" attitude comes from,
1) Telling your friends "Watch this"
2) You going out there and Cold Approaching
3) Rapid results (And this can be as minuscule as a laugh and A playful touch)
4) Walking back to them like nothing happened and saying "It was that easy"
After that you let them come to you because you can't force them to do it and you don't want to, you want them to do it because they one day decide that they want to be good at the game too. This is so they are doing it for themselves and not something they do whenever your around.
True, but there is something I want to bring up on today's journal.novaknight said:Glad you quit football. Can't ever stand out at something you don't have a passion for. Plus its pretty taxing on your morale too.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.