"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The chick at work...

DJ Wrangler

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Alright so here's the deal;

Most of the time its rather easy for me to land dates with girls because i may only see them once or twice a week, whether it be in passing (because we are creatures of habit) or in class.

So how would u guys go about handling the chick at work? Who I see four to five times a week?

Its just confused the hell out of me. I know there is some mutual interest and we flirt and occasionally "talk dirty" (I work in a restaurant.)

So let me have it; the good and the bad!

Thanks guys,

Wrangler
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Skel

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DJ Wrangler said:
So how would u guys go about handling the chick at work?
I wouldnt. Don't mess with girls at work unless you dont give 2 ****s about your job:nono:
 

Thatfeel21

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im having that same "problem" at work..only thing is, i know shes doing it for attenton cuz i know she has a boyfriend..
 

DonJuan11

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Skel said:
I wouldnt. Don't mess with girls at work unless you dont give 2 ****s about your job:nono:

I don't like when people say don't get involved with girls at work.

Then you have to set him up with a girl he is attracted to. You can't tell him to forget about her but then not help him (find a girl)
 

killbill

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I would just go for it. I admit I always hear dont do it but why? and let me tell you the only problem is if you guys dump each other you might hate seeing her thats about it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Incog

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killbill said:
I would just go for it. I admit I always hear dont do it but why? and let me tell you the only problem is if you guys dump each other you might hate seeing her thats about it.
1. You'll be spending too much time together.

2. It'll be difficult not to bring a current personal problem (during a fight, etc.) to work.

3. As you said, when you break up, she's still right there every day.
 
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