"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The chick at work...

DJ Wrangler

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Alright so here's the deal;

Most of the time its rather easy for me to land dates with girls because i may only see them once or twice a week, whether it be in passing (because we are creatures of habit) or in class.

So how would u guys go about handling the chick at work? Who I see four to five times a week?

Its just confused the hell out of me. I know there is some mutual interest and we flirt and occasionally "talk dirty" (I work in a restaurant.)

So let me have it; the good and the bad!

Thanks guys,

Wrangler
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Skel

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DJ Wrangler said:
So how would u guys go about handling the chick at work?
I wouldnt. Don't mess with girls at work unless you dont give 2 ****s about your job:nono:
 

Thatfeel21

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im having that same "problem" at work..only thing is, i know shes doing it for attenton cuz i know she has a boyfriend..
 

DonJuan11

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Skel said:
I wouldnt. Don't mess with girls at work unless you dont give 2 ****s about your job:nono:

I don't like when people say don't get involved with girls at work.

Then you have to set him up with a girl he is attracted to. You can't tell him to forget about her but then not help him (find a girl)
 

killbill

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I would just go for it. I admit I always hear dont do it but why? and let me tell you the only problem is if you guys dump each other you might hate seeing her thats about it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Incog

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killbill said:
I would just go for it. I admit I always hear dont do it but why? and let me tell you the only problem is if you guys dump each other you might hate seeing her thats about it.
1. You'll be spending too much time together.

2. It'll be difficult not to bring a current personal problem (during a fight, etc.) to work.

3. As you said, when you break up, she's still right there every day.
 
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