"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The chick at work...

DJ Wrangler

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Alright so here's the deal;

Most of the time its rather easy for me to land dates with girls because i may only see them once or twice a week, whether it be in passing (because we are creatures of habit) or in class.

So how would u guys go about handling the chick at work? Who I see four to five times a week?

Its just confused the hell out of me. I know there is some mutual interest and we flirt and occasionally "talk dirty" (I work in a restaurant.)

So let me have it; the good and the bad!

Thanks guys,

Wrangler
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Skel

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DJ Wrangler said:
So how would u guys go about handling the chick at work?
I wouldnt. Don't mess with girls at work unless you dont give 2 ****s about your job:nono:
 

Thatfeel21

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im having that same "problem" at work..only thing is, i know shes doing it for attenton cuz i know she has a boyfriend..
 

DonJuan11

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Skel said:
I wouldnt. Don't mess with girls at work unless you dont give 2 ****s about your job:nono:

I don't like when people say don't get involved with girls at work.

Then you have to set him up with a girl he is attracted to. You can't tell him to forget about her but then not help him (find a girl)
 

killbill

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I would just go for it. I admit I always hear dont do it but why? and let me tell you the only problem is if you guys dump each other you might hate seeing her thats about it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Incog

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killbill said:
I would just go for it. I admit I always hear dont do it but why? and let me tell you the only problem is if you guys dump each other you might hate seeing her thats about it.
1. You'll be spending too much time together.

2. It'll be difficult not to bring a current personal problem (during a fight, etc.) to work.

3. As you said, when you break up, she's still right there every day.
 
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