"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The "cheek kiss of death"

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So I've been hanging out with this girl for about a month. Started hanging out in groups and then moved onto hanging out alone twice so far. She shows all of the tell-tale signs of attraction and is easily a 9.

Anyway, we had an awesome time last night. I was totally set to kiss her at the end of the date, but I could tell she was sort of nervous. I went in for the kill and she turned her cheek to me at the last second.

Fast-forward to today, we got into talking about kissing. I decided that I would mention the "cheek kiss of death". I told her that once that happens, it's a clear sign that any intimacy is killed. She replied with "No! Christ! No it's not!," to which I replied "In my experience, 7 out of 10 times it is". She still disagreed with me.

Does this sound like a smart way to set up the moment the next time I get her alone or what? I think it gives me a few different ways to approach it.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Daddy The Pimp

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Maybe 90% of the girls i have kissed , turned the cheek to me. They try to show to me and to themselves that they are good girls that are not easy to get. But you should be persistent and dominant. Don't stop escalating. Kiss her neck than go for the make out again. Don't be scared by "cheek kiss of death".

Sometimes , i get the help of so called " Kiss Rape " *devilish grin :D*
 

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Ouch.. 90%? :(

If a chick turns her cheek when I go in for a kiss, I'll turn that cheek right back at me. If she still insists on not kissing, I'll politely excuse myself. What's the point in chilling with a chick who won't even kiss you? Obviously the IL isn't there, move on if it comes to that point.
 

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I'm pretty positive the IL is there. She admittedly doesn't have that much experience. If it happens again next time, I'll move on.
 
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