"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The "cheek kiss of death"

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So I've been hanging out with this girl for about a month. Started hanging out in groups and then moved onto hanging out alone twice so far. She shows all of the tell-tale signs of attraction and is easily a 9.

Anyway, we had an awesome time last night. I was totally set to kiss her at the end of the date, but I could tell she was sort of nervous. I went in for the kill and she turned her cheek to me at the last second.

Fast-forward to today, we got into talking about kissing. I decided that I would mention the "cheek kiss of death". I told her that once that happens, it's a clear sign that any intimacy is killed. She replied with "No! Christ! No it's not!," to which I replied "In my experience, 7 out of 10 times it is". She still disagreed with me.

Does this sound like a smart way to set up the moment the next time I get her alone or what? I think it gives me a few different ways to approach it.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Maybe 90% of the girls i have kissed , turned the cheek to me. They try to show to me and to themselves that they are good girls that are not easy to get. But you should be persistent and dominant. Don't stop escalating. Kiss her neck than go for the make out again. Don't be scared by "cheek kiss of death".

Sometimes , i get the help of so called " Kiss Rape " *devilish grin :D*
 
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Ouch.. 90%? :(

If a chick turns her cheek when I go in for a kiss, I'll turn that cheek right back at me. If she still insists on not kissing, I'll politely excuse myself. What's the point in chilling with a chick who won't even kiss you? Obviously the IL isn't there, move on if it comes to that point.
 
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I'm pretty positive the IL is there. She admittedly doesn't have that much experience. If it happens again next time, I'll move on.
 
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