"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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The "cheek kiss of death"

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So I've been hanging out with this girl for about a month. Started hanging out in groups and then moved onto hanging out alone twice so far. She shows all of the tell-tale signs of attraction and is easily a 9.

Anyway, we had an awesome time last night. I was totally set to kiss her at the end of the date, but I could tell she was sort of nervous. I went in for the kill and she turned her cheek to me at the last second.

Fast-forward to today, we got into talking about kissing. I decided that I would mention the "cheek kiss of death". I told her that once that happens, it's a clear sign that any intimacy is killed. She replied with "No! Christ! No it's not!," to which I replied "In my experience, 7 out of 10 times it is". She still disagreed with me.

Does this sound like a smart way to set up the moment the next time I get her alone or what? I think it gives me a few different ways to approach it.
 
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Maybe 90% of the girls i have kissed , turned the cheek to me. They try to show to me and to themselves that they are good girls that are not easy to get. But you should be persistent and dominant. Don't stop escalating. Kiss her neck than go for the make out again. Don't be scared by "cheek kiss of death".

Sometimes , i get the help of so called " Kiss Rape " *devilish grin :D*
 
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Ouch.. 90%? :(

If a chick turns her cheek when I go in for a kiss, I'll turn that cheek right back at me. If she still insists on not kissing, I'll politely excuse myself. What's the point in chilling with a chick who won't even kiss you? Obviously the IL isn't there, move on if it comes to that point.
 
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I'm pretty positive the IL is there. She admittedly doesn't have that much experience. If it happens again next time, I'll move on.
 
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