"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Cardinal Rule of Relationships

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I absolutely agree cos its happened to me on several occasions, i.e power shifting from the other party to me simply because i exhibited behaviors (moving on to date other people after an initial rejection and giving no rats ass) that sent clear messages that i didn't need them anymore.

Now they call me, asking for dates and 'hang outs', calling to see if i'm ok etc.

It's like magic except it's freaking real!.
 
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By nature, genetic design, as created by God, the man is at the forefront, the powerhouse, the power, behind the relationship with the female - the woman is always in need of the male more so than the male in need of the female -- the homo/hor agenda of the 20th century has artificially changed this balance to the detriment of both parties involved and and to society - thus the rampant social familial ills we face today!!!

Men, by default, have the power and thus control over the female unless there has been an artificial contrivance to make it otherwise!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So true...I even have a recent example to back it up.

Cute girl in my bedroom, after the first date....we're watching my band on youtube....I'm kinoing, she's receptive...then I ASK if I can kiss her (weak I know, but I wasn't thinking). She says, 'its too early' and gets up to leave....I say "I'll see you again though, right?" To which she replies "Sure."

Needless to say, we haven't done anything to this day.

I'm usually decent at closing, but I read this one wrong....I think I wasn't more agressive because I really liked her.

Anyway, the point is, the whole relationship dynamic changed from ME in control to HER in control from then on....and girls need a challenge.

Don't make the same mistake. I know i won't do it again.
 
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But RT there is really symbiosis going on. Your boss doesn't need you, but he needs somebody, otherwise he is out of business. Like the old Abbott and Costello routine, "I get it, you're the boss and I'm nothing. Some boss, boss over nothing."
 
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kanaka said:
I absolutely agree cos its happened to me on several occasions, i.e power shifting from the other party to me simply because i exhibited behaviors (moving on to date other people after an initial rejection and giving no rats ass) that sent clear messages that i didn't need them anymore.

Now they call me, asking for dates and 'hang outs', calling to see if i'm ok etc.

It's like magic except it's freaking real!.
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Its happed me too but no more. I realise the mistake I made and won't be making another.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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