"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Cardinal Rule of Relationships

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I absolutely agree cos its happened to me on several occasions, i.e power shifting from the other party to me simply because i exhibited behaviors (moving on to date other people after an initial rejection and giving no rats ass) that sent clear messages that i didn't need them anymore.

Now they call me, asking for dates and 'hang outs', calling to see if i'm ok etc.

It's like magic except it's freaking real!.
 
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By nature, genetic design, as created by God, the man is at the forefront, the powerhouse, the power, behind the relationship with the female - the woman is always in need of the male more so than the male in need of the female -- the homo/hor agenda of the 20th century has artificially changed this balance to the detriment of both parties involved and and to society - thus the rampant social familial ills we face today!!!

Men, by default, have the power and thus control over the female unless there has been an artificial contrivance to make it otherwise!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So true...I even have a recent example to back it up.

Cute girl in my bedroom, after the first date....we're watching my band on youtube....I'm kinoing, she's receptive...then I ASK if I can kiss her (weak I know, but I wasn't thinking). She says, 'its too early' and gets up to leave....I say "I'll see you again though, right?" To which she replies "Sure."

Needless to say, we haven't done anything to this day.

I'm usually decent at closing, but I read this one wrong....I think I wasn't more agressive because I really liked her.

Anyway, the point is, the whole relationship dynamic changed from ME in control to HER in control from then on....and girls need a challenge.

Don't make the same mistake. I know i won't do it again.
 
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But RT there is really symbiosis going on. Your boss doesn't need you, but he needs somebody, otherwise he is out of business. Like the old Abbott and Costello routine, "I get it, you're the boss and I'm nothing. Some boss, boss over nothing."
 
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kanaka said:
I absolutely agree cos its happened to me on several occasions, i.e power shifting from the other party to me simply because i exhibited behaviors (moving on to date other people after an initial rejection and giving no rats ass) that sent clear messages that i didn't need them anymore.

Now they call me, asking for dates and 'hang outs', calling to see if i'm ok etc.

It's like magic except it's freaking real!.
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Its happed me too but no more. I realise the mistake I made and won't be making another.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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