The Cardinal Rule of Relationships

[djbr]

Up!

NOW!

 

[Bigfatasspimp]

Sh1t man

 

[kanaka]

I absolutely agree cos its happened to me on several occasions, i.e power shifting from the other party to me simply because i exhibited behaviors (moving on to date other people after an initial rejection and giving no rats ass) that sent clear messages that i didn't need them anymore.

Now they call me, asking for dates and 'hang outs', calling to see if i'm ok etc.

It's like magic except it's freaking real!.

 

[Last Man Standing]

By nature, genetic design, as created by God, the man is at the forefront, the powerhouse, the power, behind the relationship with the female - the woman is always in need of the male more so than the male in need of the female -- the homo/hor agenda of the 20th century has artificially changed this balance to the detriment of both parties involved and and to society - thus the rampant social familial ills we face today!!!

Men, by default, have the power and thus control over the female unless there has been an artificial contrivance to make it otherwise!

 

[kickureface]

nice post ijust saw this on the main page too.

 

[L777]

So true...I even have a recent example to back it up.

Cute girl in my bedroom, after the first date....we're watching my band on youtube....I'm kinoing, she's receptive...then I ASK if I can kiss her (weak I know, but I wasn't thinking). She says, 'its too early' and gets up to leave....I say "I'll see you again though, right?" To which she replies "Sure."

Needless to say, we haven't done anything to this day.

I'm usually decent at closing, but I read this one wrong....I think I wasn't more agressive because I really liked her.

Anyway, the point is, the whole relationship dynamic changed from ME in control to HER in control from then on....and girls need a challenge.

Don't make the same mistake. I know i won't do it again.

 

[ElChoclo]

But RT there is really symbiosis going on. Your boss doesn't need you, but he needs somebody, otherwise he is out of business. Like the old Abbott and Costello routine, "I get it, you're the boss and I'm nothing. Some boss, boss over nothing."

 

[Answers]

I absolutely agree cos its happened to me on several occasions, i.e power shifting from the other party to me simply because i exhibited behaviors (moving on to date other people after an initial rejection and giving no rats ass) that sent clear messages that i didn't need them anymore.

Now they call me, asking for dates and 'hang outs', calling to see if i'm ok etc.

It's like magic except it's freaking real!.

Its happed me too but no more. I realise the mistake I made and won't be making another.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

BUMP

Its worthy

 

[Quiksilver]

Just putting a copy of this in Tips.