The Bruce Wayne/Batman Method

[Fatal Jay]

Was at church service today, my ex gf goes there also, we haven't talked in months. She did the fade away method on me. Instead of the afc move talking to her during church services, I ignore her and leave church as soon as service is over (usually after church, everyone stand and talk). I have lost 30 more pounds since we been dating. Whenever I am there people flock around me and talk to me and I can feel her eyes on me the whole time, I said one word to her today at church during service which was "hey" and continue talking to other people during meet and greet time.

I call this the batman method because, whenever I'm around her presence I do what I need to do, and I am gone, no trying to see what she been up to or anything. I apply this with all women in my life, I do what I need to do with them and then I'm gone, that's what women loved about bruce wayne/batman they don't know what he is doing in his life, they just see what he does, and then he is gone, and I believe women love that, for the fact that so many thoughts are bouncing around in their brain about this man. Things like "who is he dating" "why is he not paying attention to me" " where is he going, is he going to see a girl"?

The bruce wayne/batman method.


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[betheman]

I dont understand this, you usually talk and people flock around = good!
she shows and you piss off??? you're kicking yourself in the balls here surely?
the bette rmove is to continue to have thme flock around you but keeping a 'polite' distance between you and the ex.
maybe I read it wrong?

 

[yyc12]

This is the typical way men deal with breakups. Can someone explain why women see this as being hostile towards them or even immature? I don't see how doing what you need to do for yourself as anything wrong.

 

[Fatal Jay]

I dont understand this, you usually talk and people flock around = good!
she shows and you piss off??? you're kicking yourself in the balls here surely?
the bette rmove is to continue to have thme flock around you but keeping a 'polite' distance between you and the ex.
maybe I read it wrong?

that's exactly what I do, maybe I didn't speak enough on the meet and greet part of the service is when people flock around me, and I keep a polite distance to her, but today she happened to be right behind me, my seat was behind me, so when I turned around she was there. So I said hey and continued to talk to others.

This is the typical way men deal with breakups. Can someone explain why women see this as being hostile towards them or even immature? I don't see how doing what you need to do for yourself as anything wrong.

Women think this is hostile or immature, because your not feeding her ego, you not doing what males in her past have done.

 

[Uncharted]

This is textbook DJ. Don't treat her like she's special, but don't totally ignore her.

 

[Fatal Jay]

Exactly because if you 100 percent ignore her, that lets her know she got to you.