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The Brad Pitt Test needs to come back

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It is. You are "godlike" only for some women, not for all.
Every gender has a type they prefer, but there are more men likely fvck around outside their type due to scarcity. Women do not have a scarcity issue for men, so they will hyperfocus on a particular type of guy.
 

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It definitely helps to ask yourself hypotheticals like this. On the flip side it can be helpful to ask yourself "would a woman act like this to a homeless man?", which is particularly useful for gauging IOIs and some other specific scenarios.

People mock this and say "Why does this matter, you're not Brad Pitt", well they are completely missing the point. If a woman could be acting differently in the presence of a high value guy, then it gives you a nice reality check to realize something may be wrong.
 

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Brad Pitt, Will Smith, Johnny Depp, Tom Brady, Kevin Costner, some of the most attractive men on earth, were all punked by their women.

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It is. You are "godlike" only for some women, not for all.
It's not, because you are comparing elite level looks to your own and most men are going to lose that battle.

Now, if you have elite level looks then sure, perhaps it's a valid comparison.

If you don't, expecting a woman is going to respond the same way is Alice in Wonderland Fantasyland sh!t.
 

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Lookism takes a back seat to status.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's not, because you are comparing elite level looks to your own and most men are going to lose that battle.

Now, if you have elite level looks then sure, perhaps it's a valid comparison.

If you don't, expecting a woman is going to respond the same way is Alice in Wonderland Fantasyland sh!t.
Elite level in the lens of men are overblown and do not really exist as long as you maintain a healthy weight and take proper care of yourself. I do not consider Micheal B Jordan, Idris Elba, or Paul Rudd elite in looks, but most women would take them over some giga chad meme, The Rock, or some Erik Thor. It does not matter if you aren't elite in the eyes of men when you are trying to fvck women lol.
 

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Lots of this has to be rewritten for 2025.

When 90% of women are *****s.
 

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Perhaps for +25y old females.
Nope.
I do not consider Micheal B Jordan, Idris Elba, or Paul Rudd elite in looks,
These men could even drop notches in their looks and still have more women than they can handle.


Thuggery —> status—> looks. That’s the order.

Look at the hunter eyes on this guy, and his chiseled jaw. Lol.

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It's not, because you are comparing elite level looks to your own and most men are going to lose that battle.

Now, if you have elite level looks then sure, perhaps it's a valid comparison.

If you don't, expecting a woman is going to respond the same way is Alice in Wonderland Fantasyland sh!t.
I think Brad Pitt is the personification of the mythical “Chad” often used in examples to describe someone with elite looks, money, status, and personality, because Brad Pitt has all of these. Most men who struggle with women probably haven’t seen a real-life Chad or a woman actively choosing one in person, but everyone knows Brad Pitt, so he’s an easier and universal example to use.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Brad Pitt, Will Smith, Johnny Depp, Tom Brady, Kevin Costner, some of the most attractive men on earth, were all punked by their women
Pitt left a perfectly solid companion(Anniston) for a well-established nut case(As early as '99, Jolie was known for French kissing her own brother in public, and by '01 was wearing vials of her second husband's blood), Smith is widely reported to be a gay man who married for the sake of his career, and Depp decided to wife up a then-hot piece of ass he'd had a fling with on set, rather than putting that sh-t behind him, once The Rum Diaries wrapped. Dunno much about Costner's dating life, nonetheless Brady married a super model, a demographic not typically renowned for their depth of thought and emotional sturdiness

While there are no guarantees in life, a lot of pain and suffering can be avoided or/and reduced, by simply being cagey as to whom one allows into their lives. This is true for both genders, and applies in more areas than just dating

Ex. Don't say "Yes" to a high-paying gig with someone who's maltreatment of their workforce has long been the stuff of legend. A fair amount of that lavish salary is likely to be spent on rectifying both the physical and psychiatric woes you end up with afterwards
 

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I think Brad Pitt is the personification of the mythical “Chad” often used in examples to describe someone with elite looks, money, status, and personality, because Brad Pitt has all of these
And even HE had to strive to rise to the heights he's ascended to + Stay there. Today, we often forget just how long dude had been knocking around in the industry before becoming a household name in the mid-90s. Even then, doubts about his abilities as an actor persisted long afterwards... Go read the reviews of his work in Troy

BP had to expend an immense amount of effort, to avoid going the way of Barry Watson or that dude from Smallville. Looks alone aren't much of an advantage
 

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It's not, because you are comparing elite level looks to your own and most men are going to lose that battle.

Now, if you have elite level looks then sure, perhaps it's a valid comparison.

If you don't, expecting a woman is going to respond the same way is Alice in Wonderland Fantasyland sh!t.
I mean, there are beautiful men that women want because they're very pretty.
But there will still be a man for her that will make her crush, even if he is ugly for the mass.
We can't control this.
 

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The rule I live by, which I have mentioned before and which is an extension of this principle, is that I don't allow myself to believe a single thing a girl says (or more importantly act accordingly, as if I believed it) no matter how plausible her excuse or other statement may actually be in that context. You shouldn't get hung up on what she says because all that matters at the end of the day is her willingness to walk the walk and work around whatever problem she claims to have, and if the excuse is legitimate, it is her loss for not being proactive; she gets enough of a rush riding Chad's **** to need the free ego boost of some poor sap actually following up umpteen times about the status of her "broken car" or whatever.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I get it. You’re not Brad Pitt.
And that's the point.

If man was Brad Pitt, a famous musician, athlete, or actor, then yes, a woman will act differently. But he is not, so he has to work with what he has.

If Sydney Sweeney or Margot Robbie (or any woman a man found to be attractive) called him, he would be all over it. But if an older woman, single mom, or overweight woman called him, he wouldn't give her the time of day.

Men would fly to Japan to hug Sydney Sweeney. Opps sorry, some men on Sosuave are Alphas and have studied women for years. They have developed into naturals and hot women would be so lucky to get with them. They would require Sydney Sweeney to buy them dinner first, and then the would reward Sydney with the gift of their sex.

Rock on!
 

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she gets enough of a rush riding Chad's **** to need the free ego boost of some poor sap actually following up umpteen times about the status of her "broken car" or whatever.
Could you say this better? I don't understand translating from english to italian! Thanks!
 

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Pitt left a perfectly solid companion(Anniston) for a well-established nut case(As early as '99, Jolie was known for French kissing her own brother in public, and by '01 was wearing vials of her second husband's blood), Smith is widely reported to be a gay man who married for the sake of his career, and Depp decided to wife up a then-hot piece of ass he'd had a fling with on set, rather than putting that sh-t behind him, once The Rum Diaries wrapped. Dunno much about Costner's dating life, nonetheless Brady married a super model, a demographic not typically renowned for their depth of thought and emotional sturdiness

While there are no guarantees in life, a lot of pain and suffering can be avoided or/and reduced, by simply being cagey as to whom one allows into their lives. This is true for both genders, and applies in more areas than just dating

Ex. Don't say "Yes" to a high-paying gig with someone who's maltreatment of their workforce has long been the stuff of legend. A fair amount of that lavish salary is likely to be spent on rectifying both the physical and psychiatric woes you end up with afterwards
You are correct, but the point still stands: there’s no Brad Pitt test. And Chad isn’t free from being treated like sh1t.
 

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Could you say this better? I don't understand translating from english to italian! Thanks!
I don’t know how to word it in a way that would translate correctly into Italian (machine translation is usually tripped up by slang) but it was just emphasising the previous point; if you understood that then you understand the post.
 

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And Chad isn’t free from being treated like sh1t.
Yep: Life is inherently dangerous, and a lot of what we've encountered around The Manosphere over the past decade or so is no less contaminated by "Safetyism" than most of the rhetoric we get out of The Woke Left

Anyone who can't bear the thought of sometimes hearing words or witnessing behavior they find objectionable is well-advised to remain indoors, watching The Disney Channel
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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