I met this wonderful chick last night and thanks to my bracelet approach. Well i have a gold bracelet and everytime i notice a hottie i walk with it trying to put it on and that gets her to notice me ( because she see that i having a hardtime putting it on) I told her if she can help me which she said yes and as we was putting on me she told me that is was a cool bracelet and we talk from there. What do you think? Does it work all the time?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The Bracelet Approach
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Interesting idea, but what's to stop her from walking by you without offering assistance?
You're the one who does it, you tell us!
I can't stop thinking "Miami Vice"...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
spidersense
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I don't like for women to know my financial situation. Maybe this is just me. I don't want a woman to know if I'm rich, or if I'm poor. I'm not going to hide it from her, but I don't do things to suggest that I have money. Like, I don't where Aqua Di Gio cologne just because it makes you smell like you have money.
Tell me if I'm alone in this.
spidersense
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Pretty much all women that I meet. I mean, of course information on that will be divulged slowly, but I don't like to do things that would make people think that I have money at first. Except clothing, I wear some nice stuff just because it's the style that I like.
diablo
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If you're asking how to initiate a conversation, I'd recommend you do a search for "cold approach"/"cold approaches".
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spider
Spider,
Your right about keeping your 'money matters' to yourself.
I never talk 'money' to a woman.
I have some real estate and stock market investments and it is none of their damnnn business........
cave dweller
Spider,
Your right about keeping your 'money matters' to yourself.
I never talk 'money' to a woman.
I have some real estate and stock market investments and it is none of their damnnn business........
cave dweller
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is an awesome idea, I'll have to try it some time but with my watch, it's all red with studs in it, it'll get me a punk.
You know when the girl snatches it from you, kicks you in the shin and runs off you have a keeper.
You know when the girl snatches it from you, kicks you in the shin and runs off you have a keeper.