I met this wonderful chick last night and thanks to my bracelet approach. Well i have a gold bracelet and everytime i notice a hottie i walk with it trying to put it on and that gets her to notice me ( because she see that i having a hardtime putting it on) I told her if she can help me which she said yes and as we was putting on me she told me that is was a cool bracelet and we talk from there. What do you think? Does it work all the time?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
The Bracelet Approach
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Interesting idea, but what's to stop her from walking by you without offering assistance?
You're the one who does it, you tell us!
I can't stop thinking "Miami Vice"...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I don't like for women to know my financial situation. Maybe this is just me. I don't want a woman to know if I'm rich, or if I'm poor. I'm not going to hide it from her, but I don't do things to suggest that I have money. Like, I don't where Aqua Di Gio cologne just because it makes you smell like you have money.
Tell me if I'm alone in this.
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Pretty much all women that I meet. I mean, of course information on that will be divulged slowly, but I don't like to do things that would make people think that I have money at first. Except clothing, I wear some nice stuff just because it's the style that I like.
diablo
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If you're asking how to initiate a conversation, I'd recommend you do a search for "cold approach"/"cold approaches".
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spider
Spider,
Your right about keeping your 'money matters' to yourself.
I never talk 'money' to a woman.
I have some real estate and stock market investments and it is none of their damnnn business........
cave dweller
Spider,
Your right about keeping your 'money matters' to yourself.
I never talk 'money' to a woman.
I have some real estate and stock market investments and it is none of their damnnn business........
cave dweller
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This is an awesome idea, I'll have to try it some time but with my watch, it's all red with studs in it, it'll get me a punk.
You know when the girl snatches it from you, kicks you in the shin and runs off you have a keeper.
You know when the girl snatches it from you, kicks you in the shin and runs off you have a keeper.