"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Bracelet Approach

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I met this wonderful chick last night and thanks to my bracelet approach. Well i have a gold bracelet and everytime i notice a hottie i walk with it trying to put it on and that gets her to notice me ( because she see that i having a hardtime putting it on) I told her if she can help me which she said yes and as we was putting on me she told me that is was a cool bracelet and we talk from there. What do you think? Does it work all the time?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by knight56
What do you think?
Interesting idea, but what's to stop her from walking by you without offering assistance?
Originally posted by knight56
Does it work all the time?
You're the one who does it, you tell us! :p


I can't stop thinking "Miami Vice"...
 

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yes it works sometime for me. What are you best ways to approach them?
 

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lol is that what you think?? LOL well let her think that i have money..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by knight56
lol is that what you think?? LOL well let her think that i have money..
I don't like for women to know my financial situation. Maybe this is just me. I don't want a woman to know if I'm rich, or if I'm poor. I'm not going to hide it from her, but I don't do things to suggest that I have money. Like, I don't where Aqua Di Gio cologne just because it makes you smell like you have money.

Tell me if I'm alone in this.
 

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Pretty much all women that I meet. I mean, of course information on that will be divulged slowly, but I don't like to do things that would make people think that I have money at first. Except clothing, I wear some nice stuff just because it's the style that I like.
 

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yes it works sometime for me. What are you best ways to approach them?
If you're asking how to initiate a conversation, I'd recommend you do a search for "cold approach"/"cold approaches".
 

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Spider,

Your right about keeping your 'money matters' to yourself.

I never talk 'money' to a woman.

I have some real estate and stock market investments and it is none of their damnnn business........

cave dweller
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is an awesome idea, I'll have to try it some time but with my watch, it's all red with studs in it, it'll get me a punk.

You know when the girl snatches it from you, kicks you in the shin and runs off you have a keeper.
 
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