"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The boyfriend she "hates" still has her.

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Before i start: this is a drama post, and before an DJs say "Shes fvcking up, not worth it, NEXT her!" i know. I want the ass, my prize, for these 3 weeks of work.

This girl i met 3 weeks ago is absolutely infatuated with me. Shes scared to get too close to me because I got her obsessed with me in one night hahah [not really scared, but she is a pessimist].
But that night i also learned she has a boyfriend. I am NOT trying to break them up[ok, yes i am, but I'll explain]. She tells me she "Hates her boyfriend, but hes her bestfriend and she can't be a b!tch and break her best-friends heart." When she says hate i know she means "don't wnat ot be with him" lol.

But that was 3 weeks ago. And STILL she stays with him. So i came home[i've only seen her twice in 2 weeks, we were gonna chill today, but sh!t happened] and saw that she wrote "i love u" about him in her profile.

I basicly put my foot down and said "I gave you 3 weeks, you didn't end it, I guess there won't be a us." Now shes all sad and sh!t. I guess i'm kinda trying to nudge her into dumping the guy, finally.
As i don't want her to cheat on him, cheaters suck.

But then...if she doesn't cheat on him, fvck it, i still want soem punnany. But i don't know how to makeup for being pissed. shall i...just invite her to chill and pretend it never happened? Say "look, you have one day to end it with him. We can't be together in anyway if you're with him." When asked once, she said "eww, i would never hookup with him" in reference to her bf..or maybe i can talk to her sister[who i'm tight with]...
am i getting mind-fvcked?
help would be greatly appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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hmmm, tricky spot

at the risk of sounding unpopular, i'll say give her one night. make it clear, after tonight, thats it.

if she doesn't do it, move on
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lol aight, fvck her.
i told her she had to do it tomorrow, and she gave me a list of excuses why she can't tomrrow and i sai d"aight, thsoe are bullshti excuses so i'm out. peace" and she got mad hahaha
 

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Originally posted by Patrick124
lol aight, fvck her.
i told her she had to do it tomorrow, and she gave me a list of excuses why she can't tomrrow and i sai d"aight, thsoe are bullshti excuses so i'm out. peace" and she got mad hahaha
exactly my point
 

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Originally posted by Patrick124
lol aight, fvck her.
i told her she had to do it tomorrow, and she gave me a list of excuses why she can't tomrrow and i sai d"aight, thsoe are bullshti excuses so i'm out. peace" and she got mad hahaha
case closed
next
 

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Originally posted by Fitch
Your GOOD; you should be a moderator!
i did learn from the best, after all.

quiet, they might be listening :eek:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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