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The boyfriend she "hates" still has her.

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Before i start: this is a drama post, and before an DJs say "Shes fvcking up, not worth it, NEXT her!" i know. I want the ass, my prize, for these 3 weeks of work.

This girl i met 3 weeks ago is absolutely infatuated with me. Shes scared to get too close to me because I got her obsessed with me in one night hahah [not really scared, but she is a pessimist].
But that night i also learned she has a boyfriend. I am NOT trying to break them up[ok, yes i am, but I'll explain]. She tells me she "Hates her boyfriend, but hes her bestfriend and she can't be a b!tch and break her best-friends heart." When she says hate i know she means "don't wnat ot be with him" lol.

But that was 3 weeks ago. And STILL she stays with him. So i came home[i've only seen her twice in 2 weeks, we were gonna chill today, but sh!t happened] and saw that she wrote "i love u" about him in her profile.

I basicly put my foot down and said "I gave you 3 weeks, you didn't end it, I guess there won't be a us." Now shes all sad and sh!t. I guess i'm kinda trying to nudge her into dumping the guy, finally.
As i don't want her to cheat on him, cheaters suck.

But then...if she doesn't cheat on him, fvck it, i still want soem punnany. But i don't know how to makeup for being pissed. shall i...just invite her to chill and pretend it never happened? Say "look, you have one day to end it with him. We can't be together in anyway if you're with him." When asked once, she said "eww, i would never hookup with him" in reference to her bf..or maybe i can talk to her sister[who i'm tight with]...
am i getting mind-fvcked?
help would be greatly appreciated.
 

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hmmm, tricky spot

at the risk of sounding unpopular, i'll say give her one night. make it clear, after tonight, thats it.

if she doesn't do it, move on
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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lol aight, fvck her.
i told her she had to do it tomorrow, and she gave me a list of excuses why she can't tomrrow and i sai d"aight, thsoe are bullshti excuses so i'm out. peace" and she got mad hahaha
 

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Originally posted by Patrick124
lol aight, fvck her.
i told her she had to do it tomorrow, and she gave me a list of excuses why she can't tomrrow and i sai d"aight, thsoe are bullshti excuses so i'm out. peace" and she got mad hahaha
exactly my point
 

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Originally posted by Patrick124
lol aight, fvck her.
i told her she had to do it tomorrow, and she gave me a list of excuses why she can't tomrrow and i sai d"aight, thsoe are bullshti excuses so i'm out. peace" and she got mad hahaha
case closed
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Originally posted by Fitch
Your GOOD; you should be a moderator!
i did learn from the best, after all.

quiet, they might be listening :eek:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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