"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Book That Launched The Seduction Community (Free copy at link)

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http://www.toosmarttofail.com/29reasons.pdf

My latest book is also free on the site, but you'll have to dig for it. HINT: it's similar in title to my username here.

It's called "29 Reasons Not To Be A Nice Guy."

Note the copyright on the book: 1999 (April 1, 1999 I believe).

This was the first time the term PIVOT was used. Prior to that it had been called "Friendly Fox" in my previous work (Outfoxing The Foxes).

It also captures, in fictitious post format, the flavor of the original ASF newsgroup in 1998-1999, before the commercial forces took over the "community," moved it to censored web environments, and the audience never questioned the wisdom of buying stuff from websites that did not allow free speech. USENET was not good for these people, because they couldn't exclude/silence competitors, or silence dissent. I was doing fine in this environment.

Too fine, as it turns out. Guys who bought my $30.00 books were getting laidk, and suddenly didn't need high-priced bootcamps or seminars.

Fast forward to today, and Big Media took over, stole most of the content, and the status-addicted GAMMA males in the "community" gravitate to them like an HB to an abusive jerk. Very telling.

Telling the audience to open its mind again would be futile, since the forum censors will "protect them from themselves" and not even expose them to such "trolling." How sad.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You're the one who wrote that? It's an honor to meet you! I downloaded The Seduction Library years ago and had read your books way back then (this was around 2002 I believe). It was very helpful to me when I was still learning, and I always wondered who wrote these.

I still have them on CD-ROM and occasionally re-read them. The most memorable thing I read was in the Player's Glossary regarding Bible chicks:

What do you do when Jesus is her man? Not to worry! As the players of ASF will tell you, bible chicks are among the easiest to seduce, because they have repressed their sexual desires in the name of religion, and are often craving an outlet, but torn between their commitment to their religion and their desire to fulfill their desires.
 

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Started to read the first page that had text.

I'm just appalled at the sameness of it.

Even on just this site, you'll find basically the same paragraph slightly reworded in more than one place.

How much this community has "changed"...
 

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RAY!!!

Is that you!!!

And if it is, you know better than to claim you started this community : )

The community actually started a few years earlier on soc.singles. The mods there basically got tired of "us", and then A.S.F. was created, then formhandle's site, so on and so forth.

Seems like only yesterday I was 16 and jumping out of project windows after chasing ass. Now I'm 30 and I even own a boat! I'm on a boat nigga lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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