"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Book That Launched The Seduction Community (Free copy at link)

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http://www.toosmarttofail.com/29reasons.pdf

My latest book is also free on the site, but you'll have to dig for it. HINT: it's similar in title to my username here.

It's called "29 Reasons Not To Be A Nice Guy."

Note the copyright on the book: 1999 (April 1, 1999 I believe).

This was the first time the term PIVOT was used. Prior to that it had been called "Friendly Fox" in my previous work (Outfoxing The Foxes).

It also captures, in fictitious post format, the flavor of the original ASF newsgroup in 1998-1999, before the commercial forces took over the "community," moved it to censored web environments, and the audience never questioned the wisdom of buying stuff from websites that did not allow free speech. USENET was not good for these people, because they couldn't exclude/silence competitors, or silence dissent. I was doing fine in this environment.

Too fine, as it turns out. Guys who bought my $30.00 books were getting laidk, and suddenly didn't need high-priced bootcamps or seminars.

Fast forward to today, and Big Media took over, stole most of the content, and the status-addicted GAMMA males in the "community" gravitate to them like an HB to an abusive jerk. Very telling.

Telling the audience to open its mind again would be futile, since the forum censors will "protect them from themselves" and not even expose them to such "trolling." How sad.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You're the one who wrote that? It's an honor to meet you! I downloaded The Seduction Library years ago and had read your books way back then (this was around 2002 I believe). It was very helpful to me when I was still learning, and I always wondered who wrote these.

I still have them on CD-ROM and occasionally re-read them. The most memorable thing I read was in the Player's Glossary regarding Bible chicks:

What do you do when Jesus is her man? Not to worry! As the players of ASF will tell you, bible chicks are among the easiest to seduce, because they have repressed their sexual desires in the name of religion, and are often craving an outlet, but torn between their commitment to their religion and their desire to fulfill their desires.
 

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Started to read the first page that had text.

I'm just appalled at the sameness of it.

Even on just this site, you'll find basically the same paragraph slightly reworded in more than one place.

How much this community has "changed"...
 

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RAY!!!

Is that you!!!

And if it is, you know better than to claim you started this community : )

The community actually started a few years earlier on soc.singles. The mods there basically got tired of "us", and then A.S.F. was created, then formhandle's site, so on and so forth.

Seems like only yesterday I was 16 and jumping out of project windows after chasing ass. Now I'm 30 and I even own a boat! I'm on a boat nigga lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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