"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aazman

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Ive been reading it and i'm on lesson 11. However I'm a bit lost on what it exactly means. Could you explain it for me in more depth please?

Also i'm stuck with lesson 7- the idea of respect.
I've re read it repeatedly- but its all a bit confusing.

This is obviously for those who have read the Dj bible.

Thanks

Aaz

Here is the LINK if you want to read it: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=59150
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Aazman said:
Ive been reading it and i'm on lesson 11. However I'm a bit lost on what it exactly means. Could you explain it for me in more depth please?

Also i'm stuck with lesson 7- the idea of respect.
I've re read it repeatedly- but its all a bit confusing.

This is obviously for those who have read the Dj bible.

Thanks

Aaz

Here is the LINK if you want to read it: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=59150
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The idea is Self Respect. Not being a servant or a push over. Knowing that a man is king of his castle and a king doesn't bend over to kiss the queens arse. He treats her with respect but demands that she respect him as well.
 
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In terms of Lesson 13- surely acting immature is against teh idea of manlines. Or does it mean to act manly and just treat her as a kid?

if the latter- could you give me examples?
 
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Aazman

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also in terms of mutual respect- can you give me an example as the one there isn't that great.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Aazman said:
In terms of Lesson 13- surely acting immature is against teh idea of manlines. Or does it mean to act manly and just treat her as a kid?

if the latter- could you give me examples?
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The idea put across is trying to tell you to embrace your youth and not become dragged down with social expectations. In other words, always remember to have fun in your interactions with women. Acting immature however isn't advocated.

I also wouldn't call it 'act manly and treat her as kid' more: embrace your sexuality and genes and have playful fun with your girl.

Peace out
 
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