"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Book of Pook- urgent

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Aazman

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Ive been reading it and i'm on lesson 11. However I'm a bit lost on what it exactly means. Could you explain it for me in more depth please?

Also i'm stuck with lesson 7- the idea of respect.
I've re read it repeatedly- but its all a bit confusing.

This is obviously for those who have read the Dj bible.

Thanks

Aaz

Here is the LINK if you want to read it: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=59150
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Aazman said:
Ive been reading it and i'm on lesson 11. However I'm a bit lost on what it exactly means. Could you explain it for me in more depth please?

Also i'm stuck with lesson 7- the idea of respect.
I've re read it repeatedly- but its all a bit confusing.

This is obviously for those who have read the Dj bible.

Thanks

Aaz

Here is the LINK if you want to read it: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=59150
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The idea is Self Respect. Not being a servant or a push over. Knowing that a man is king of his castle and a king doesn't bend over to kiss the queens arse. He treats her with respect but demands that she respect him as well.
 
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Aazman

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In terms of Lesson 13- surely acting immature is against teh idea of manlines. Or does it mean to act manly and just treat her as a kid?

if the latter- could you give me examples?
 
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Aazman

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also in terms of mutual respect- can you give me an example as the one there isn't that great.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Aazman said:
In terms of Lesson 13- surely acting immature is against teh idea of manlines. Or does it mean to act manly and just treat her as a kid?

if the latter- could you give me examples?
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The idea put across is trying to tell you to embrace your youth and not become dragged down with social expectations. In other words, always remember to have fun in your interactions with women. Acting immature however isn't advocated.

I also wouldn't call it 'act manly and treat her as kid' more: embrace your sexuality and genes and have playful fun with your girl.

Peace out
 
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