"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The better looking, better personality guys get massive sh!t tests?

st_99

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I think that may probably be true but wanted to get others opinions on it.

I really hate talking about "looks" but i see too many dweebie dudes that wind up in relationships but I don't think they get massive tests like I seem to get.

I have no real way of knowing for sure, as I have not conducted scientific tests to prove it, but its just my hunch.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Honesty I think your right bro. Im not saying im the best looking, but im def not the worst, and i get sh*t tests all over the place. IMO if a girls into you shell throw those tests at you. If shes not its more like whatever, she'll just shrug it off and wait for someone better.
 

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i swear, i've never fvcked a girl without putting up with so much sh!t afterwards, im thinking, no fvcking way do all guys deal with this crap.
 

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st_99 said:
i swear, i've never fvcked a girl without putting up with so much sh!t afterwards, im thinking, no fvcking way do all guys deal with this crap.
It all depends on the attraction level bro. Sh*t tests IMO are IOIs. Forgot where i read it but shes testing u to see what type of man you are and how much crap u can deal with. Sh*t tests are easy to pass though, all u have to do is keep a dominate frame and re frame the test.
 

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Some give loads, some don't, its more like the hotter the girl thinks she is the more tests she puts out.

Had one gf ask me if when we first met I thought she was just another slit.

I said YES.

Soooo fvcking funny, she was pissed at me for ages, but I do like honesty, and she respected that about me :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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