"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The better looking, better personality guys get massive sh!t tests?

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I think that may probably be true but wanted to get others opinions on it.

I really hate talking about "looks" but i see too many dweebie dudes that wind up in relationships but I don't think they get massive tests like I seem to get.

I have no real way of knowing for sure, as I have not conducted scientific tests to prove it, but its just my hunch.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Honesty I think your right bro. Im not saying im the best looking, but im def not the worst, and i get sh*t tests all over the place. IMO if a girls into you shell throw those tests at you. If shes not its more like whatever, she'll just shrug it off and wait for someone better.
 
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i swear, i've never fvcked a girl without putting up with so much sh!t afterwards, im thinking, no fvcking way do all guys deal with this crap.
 
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st_99 said:
i swear, i've never fvcked a girl without putting up with so much sh!t afterwards, im thinking, no fvcking way do all guys deal with this crap.
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It all depends on the attraction level bro. Sh*t tests IMO are IOIs. Forgot where i read it but shes testing u to see what type of man you are and how much crap u can deal with. Sh*t tests are easy to pass though, all u have to do is keep a dominate frame and re frame the test.
 
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Some give loads, some don't, its more like the hotter the girl thinks she is the more tests she puts out.

Had one gf ask me if when we first met I thought she was just another slit.

I said YES.

Soooo fvcking funny, she was pissed at me for ages, but I do like honesty, and she respected that about me :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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