"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The better looking, better personality guys get massive sh!t tests?

st_99

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I think that may probably be true but wanted to get others opinions on it.

I really hate talking about "looks" but i see too many dweebie dudes that wind up in relationships but I don't think they get massive tests like I seem to get.

I have no real way of knowing for sure, as I have not conducted scientific tests to prove it, but its just my hunch.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Honesty I think your right bro. Im not saying im the best looking, but im def not the worst, and i get sh*t tests all over the place. IMO if a girls into you shell throw those tests at you. If shes not its more like whatever, she'll just shrug it off and wait for someone better.
 

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i swear, i've never fvcked a girl without putting up with so much sh!t afterwards, im thinking, no fvcking way do all guys deal with this crap.
 

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st_99 said:
i swear, i've never fvcked a girl without putting up with so much sh!t afterwards, im thinking, no fvcking way do all guys deal with this crap.
It all depends on the attraction level bro. Sh*t tests IMO are IOIs. Forgot where i read it but shes testing u to see what type of man you are and how much crap u can deal with. Sh*t tests are easy to pass though, all u have to do is keep a dominate frame and re frame the test.
 

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Some give loads, some don't, its more like the hotter the girl thinks she is the more tests she puts out.

Had one gf ask me if when we first met I thought she was just another slit.

I said YES.

Soooo fvcking funny, she was pissed at me for ages, but I do like honesty, and she respected that about me :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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