"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Best Way To Become Confident...

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After being on this site for two weeks, and applying it to myself, here are the two best ways to become confident...

1) Love life

Love life, love yourself, love the things you do. If you're positive and optimistic in life, that'll show and that's a great thing.

2) Just do it

If you're going up to ask a girl something and if you don't have the balls to, or are trying to find them, here's 3 little words to help you out: Just do it. What's the answer if you never ask her? No. Does that get you anywhere? No. Just do it. Because for all you know, it could be yes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I always liked "Be all you can be", or "I'm loving it" that way you got both in one.
 
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hi

I represent Nike and would ask you to cease and desist from using our motto as part of your lifes functionality please.

Hey, I actually catch cried the "just do it" thing as well but for business not women. I gotta tell ya, it worked wonders. Every time I didn't want to make that call or close that case I would say "just do it" almost like a mantra, it worked beautifully. Good luck to you dude.
 
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post script

I am not a fan of the "love life" one so much because life isn't really loveable. I use the old "its just a journey" one instead.
 
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"Just do it" or "Love yourself" sh1t never works!!! It's such a BS!!!...If it was that easy...:rolleyes: it would elimanate so many problems for so many ppl...hehe.
It's like your therapist saying to you: stop it!...You depressed?...well stop it!!!:)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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disagree

Viking, I agree with the "love life" one but the "just do it" is dead on because it is simply action based, not way of thinking based. You just look at your slate and instead of thinking, it can wait, you just Nike it. Your actions become your habbits, whicj become your thoughts, whick become your destiny.

As for the love life thing and life is what you make it etc, I agree totally with you there Viking.
 
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