Not sure why but for me I always met the hottest chicks when I traveled. As long as I’m mobile and going to a new city every 3-4 weeks my game stays top notch. Your forced to go out and game solo, no wingman, the thrill of the new city...not sure what it is. But I know when I travel and come back to my hometown my game and confidence is through the roof. Works for me, been killing it lately. Curious if anyone feels the same or has noticed the same?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The best thing I ever did for my game
- Thread starter captain55
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
A new city will give you "new juice". Your brain will ponder additional possibilities your energies might even work better elsewhere.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Going on a trip out of town for a week can also give you new "juice" and new thoughts. Some of those convos need to be deleted, others need to be added, you might have to add activities and events which energize you and give you fresh thoughts and remove activities and venues that are giving you stale thoughts or regressing you.
Absolutely. When I lived in the U.K., I found going to some other country or city for 3-4 days, sometimes a little longer, was all I'd need for a proper reset and brain boost. My morale was always magically restored and I could think clearly. What did I need to change about my workout routines, work, spare time, savings/spending? The answers always came to me after I left home.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
My wife and i have been fighting as evidenced in another thread. She may be going on a trip next week with my daughter. While i will feel alone it may be the best thing for her to get a break and some space. I will miss my daughter alot while they are gone together though...
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Another view is if you went with and she has zero negative influences in that city that you can make positive memories.
As a matter of fact when you're in a bad position with your lady taking a trip with her is a great idea. It causes new memories and you guys to observe the different environment together.
Mike32ct
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Absolutely. You have a "clean slate" to work with, and women love the "new guy." It's a win-win.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Best thing I ever did for my game was dealing only with babes who are EXTREMELY interested, we have sex often, they like talking to and being around me, interested in me and my life.
The worst thing I ever did for my game was trying to get under interested females more interested. It literally kills your game with anybody.
The worst thing I ever did for my game was trying to get under interested females more interested. It literally kills your game with anybody.
coyote_astro
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Absolutely, when I travel to a new state or country I feel great! I can feel my horizons expanding, it's a like a new challenge, and I always feel energized when coming back.
For us academics it's the norm to travel often to conferences, and I used to love this, but COVID has messed everything up...But the time will come again!
For us academics it's the norm to travel often to conferences, and I used to love this, but COVID has messed everything up...But the time will come again!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.