"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The best spots to troll on weekends?

bobbob

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I know this has been kind of covered before, except not really cause I've never seen any good answers.

I want to restart my bootcamp but now that I've been out of school for several months, I have no idea where to go that has a large number of attractive women in approachable situations, during the day.

During weekdays, during the early afternoon the mall isn't bad. It's mostly women and kind of sparse, so its quieter and more conducive to an approach.

Bookstores at night around here are good too (8pm-ish).

During the weekend however, the crowd at malls and bookstores completely changes (tending towards mostly family and couples, and pretty much no single women anywhere to be found).

I'm far from the beach and too skinny to be running around with my shirt off hitting on girls, so that's out. There are no decent parks around (I'm in the norhtern part of l.a.)

I don't have any friends around to hit up bars and clubs so I don't go out that often to them. Plus in l.a. the scene is elitist and blows).

I'm just trying to figure out where to go to do CAs in numbers, and increase my confidence in the process.

So, where do YOU guys go on weekends to sarge? Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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snintel

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I made a thread similar to this a while ago.

I'm not into bars/clubs (nevermind that I'm under 21).... so if you want to take a casual street approach style.. I guess its down to malls/bookstores/cafes on weekdays... everything changes on weekends.

Try to meet one girl and use her as a router to her friends and just create a network. That's what I'm going to try and do. Think about that one friend you made in college who opened you up to all their friends, and your whole friend base basically changed from meeting that one person.
 
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