Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The best spots to troll on weekends?

bobbob

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I know this has been kind of covered before, except not really cause I've never seen any good answers.

I want to restart my bootcamp but now that I've been out of school for several months, I have no idea where to go that has a large number of attractive women in approachable situations, during the day.

During weekdays, during the early afternoon the mall isn't bad. It's mostly women and kind of sparse, so its quieter and more conducive to an approach.

Bookstores at night around here are good too (8pm-ish).

During the weekend however, the crowd at malls and bookstores completely changes (tending towards mostly family and couples, and pretty much no single women anywhere to be found).

I'm far from the beach and too skinny to be running around with my shirt off hitting on girls, so that's out. There are no decent parks around (I'm in the norhtern part of l.a.)

I don't have any friends around to hit up bars and clubs so I don't go out that often to them. Plus in l.a. the scene is elitist and blows).

I'm just trying to figure out where to go to do CAs in numbers, and increase my confidence in the process.

So, where do YOU guys go on weekends to sarge? Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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snintel

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I made a thread similar to this a while ago.

I'm not into bars/clubs (nevermind that I'm under 21).... so if you want to take a casual street approach style.. I guess its down to malls/bookstores/cafes on weekdays... everything changes on weekends.

Try to meet one girl and use her as a router to her friends and just create a network. That's what I'm going to try and do. Think about that one friend you made in college who opened you up to all their friends, and your whole friend base basically changed from meeting that one person.
 
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