"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The best spots to troll on weekends?

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I know this has been kind of covered before, except not really cause I've never seen any good answers.

I want to restart my bootcamp but now that I've been out of school for several months, I have no idea where to go that has a large number of attractive women in approachable situations, during the day.

During weekdays, during the early afternoon the mall isn't bad. It's mostly women and kind of sparse, so its quieter and more conducive to an approach.

Bookstores at night around here are good too (8pm-ish).

During the weekend however, the crowd at malls and bookstores completely changes (tending towards mostly family and couples, and pretty much no single women anywhere to be found).

I'm far from the beach and too skinny to be running around with my shirt off hitting on girls, so that's out. There are no decent parks around (I'm in the norhtern part of l.a.)

I don't have any friends around to hit up bars and clubs so I don't go out that often to them. Plus in l.a. the scene is elitist and blows).

I'm just trying to figure out where to go to do CAs in numbers, and increase my confidence in the process.

So, where do YOU guys go on weekends to sarge? Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I made a thread similar to this a while ago.

I'm not into bars/clubs (nevermind that I'm under 21).... so if you want to take a casual street approach style.. I guess its down to malls/bookstores/cafes on weekdays... everything changes on weekends.

Try to meet one girl and use her as a router to her friends and just create a network. That's what I'm going to try and do. Think about that one friend you made in college who opened you up to all their friends, and your whole friend base basically changed from meeting that one person.
 
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