"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The best spots to troll on weekends?

bobbob

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I know this has been kind of covered before, except not really cause I've never seen any good answers.

I want to restart my bootcamp but now that I've been out of school for several months, I have no idea where to go that has a large number of attractive women in approachable situations, during the day.

During weekdays, during the early afternoon the mall isn't bad. It's mostly women and kind of sparse, so its quieter and more conducive to an approach.

Bookstores at night around here are good too (8pm-ish).

During the weekend however, the crowd at malls and bookstores completely changes (tending towards mostly family and couples, and pretty much no single women anywhere to be found).

I'm far from the beach and too skinny to be running around with my shirt off hitting on girls, so that's out. There are no decent parks around (I'm in the norhtern part of l.a.)

I don't have any friends around to hit up bars and clubs so I don't go out that often to them. Plus in l.a. the scene is elitist and blows).

I'm just trying to figure out where to go to do CAs in numbers, and increase my confidence in the process.

So, where do YOU guys go on weekends to sarge? Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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snintel

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I made a thread similar to this a while ago.

I'm not into bars/clubs (nevermind that I'm under 21).... so if you want to take a casual street approach style.. I guess its down to malls/bookstores/cafes on weekdays... everything changes on weekends.

Try to meet one girl and use her as a router to her friends and just create a network. That's what I'm going to try and do. Think about that one friend you made in college who opened you up to all their friends, and your whole friend base basically changed from meeting that one person.
 
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