You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"That's my f*cking chair!"Charm&Style said:we've all been through it.
The yelling and screaming and attitude of an angry biatch.
What have you guys said thats juss shut them up.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Jay Jay said:A girl in High School LJBFed me after leading me on bigtime.
A year later I had become "the Man" at uni. I was visiting my Mum one night and on my way home I walked past her house. I thought I can't believe that girl LJBF me!"
I went and knocked on the door. She was home. I went in and seduced her but just before it was time to roll on the condom. I got up, dressed and left.
She walked with me to the door. "Does this mean something or was it just one of those things?" She asked me.
I looked at her seriously. "I just realised I have never felt anything other than friend ship towards you." Those were her exact words when she LJBFed me.
Mwahahahahahhaha!!!!
But in hindsite... damn I wished I had nailed her!
JJ
Nah dude, I meant University. (The Australian version of college).Charm&Style said:bro by uni..you mean uni high..in irvine??
I think thats the best one in this thread, cause yellin at chicks u dont really know may give them that omg wtf look but thats it, having history with that chick and turning what she said to you around like that is classic. I think u are better off for doin that than just f uckin her just to f uck her.Jay Jay said:A girl in High School LJBFed me after leading me on bigtime.
A year later I had become "the Man" at uni. I was visiting my Mum one night and on my way home I walked past her house. I thought I can't believe that girl LJBF me!"
I went and knocked on the door. She was home. I went in and seduced her but just before it was time to roll on the condom. I got up, dressed and left.
She walked with me to the door. "Does this mean something or was it just one of those things?" She asked me.
I looked at her seriously. "I just realised I have never felt anything other than friend ship towards you." Those were her exact words when she LJBFed me.
Mwahahahahahhaha!!!!
But in hindsite... damn I wished I had nailed her!
JJ
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I wouldve nailed her and said that **** afterwards... Why didnt you do that?? lol - guess if it was that easy though you can always go back.Jay Jay said:A girl in High School LJBFed me after leading me on bigtime.
A year later I had become "the Man" at uni. I was visiting my Mum one night and on my way home I walked past her house. I thought I can't believe that girl LJBF me!"
I went and knocked on the door. She was home. I went in and seduced her but just before it was time to roll on the condom. I got up, dressed and left.
She walked with me to the door. "Does this mean something or was it just one of those things?" She asked me.
I looked at her seriously. "I just realised I have never felt anything other than friend ship towards you." Those were her exact words when she LJBFed me.
Mwahahahahahhaha!!!!
But in hindsite... damn I wished I had nailed her!
JJ
That was freaking genius. He's gonna get her thinking about her women hood. The conversation would go something like this.boogalooboy said:I wouldve nailed her and said that **** afterwards... Why didnt you do that?? lol - guess if it was that easy though you can always go back.
Why didn't I bang her?boogalooboy said:I wouldve nailed her and said that **** afterwards... Why didnt you do that?? lol - guess if it was that easy though you can always go back.
Yeah no doubt...I bet you could get off just thinking about that! haha!qweretyuiopas said:I think thats the best one in this thread, cause yellin at chicks u dont really know may give them that omg wtf look but thats it, having history with that chick and turning what she said to you around like that is classic. I think u are better off for doin that than just f uckin her just to f uck her.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Kev07 said:Girl pointing out this pimple i had on my nose:
girl:"hey you have a big pimple on your nose! EWW"
me: "at least i don't have two pimples right there" *i point at her chest* "OH WAIT THOSE ARE JUST YOUR BOOBS"
this girl was fairly flatchested