"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Packers2010

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ok. i havw been on dating sites before and it hasn't worked. mainly cos my profile sucked and i had no idea what i was doing / wanted.

now i know what i want. (to meet some cool people) and i know what i am doing now.

so i was wondering what site i should look at? witch one do YOU think is the best and why?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why bother paying for something you can get for free?

In the past, I have gone on POF. Have a well written profile with some standards of what you are looking for, and some decent pics and girls will contact you:

POF Adventures – Met girl at club for first date and took her home with me

Just need to troll through the undesirables.

Ultimately though, assuming that you live in a city of a decent size, you really should admit to yourself why you are really going online...

Stop using Internet Dating as a Buffer and grow a F@ckin’ Pair
 

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nothing wrong with dating sites. ive met tons of girls online and via dating sites. ive also met girls in real life .. theres not much difference to be honest. its both good. its kind of easier in real life cause online theres a lot of stuck up b1tches i admit.. but i did meet really nice girls online. you just need a lot of patience going through all those sh1tty profiles and rejections.
 

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runner83 said:
Why bother paying for something you can get for free?

In the past, I have gone on POF. Have a well written profile with some standards of what you are looking for, and some decent pics and girls will contact you:

POF Adventures – Met girl at club for first date and took her home with me

Just need to troll through the undesirables.

Ultimately though, assuming that you live in a city of a decent size, you really should admit to yourself why you are really going online...

Stop using Internet Dating as a Buffer and grow a F@ckin’ Pair

thanks man. i'm not really using this as an excuse no to meet girls. i forgot to mention in the OP i am moving to wales soon. so i thought i might try get a leg up and see who was out in wales n stuff. i thought maybe if i got some good rapor wit a girl. when i get over there maybe she could show me around n stuff.

but i will most likely try my profile up again. just cos i don't really have the money to go out all the time. i mean. if i did. i would need like... 50-100$ a night. it's really expensive to go out to clubs n stuff. so i will probs just do day game.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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