"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok. i havw been on dating sites before and it hasn't worked. mainly cos my profile sucked and i had no idea what i was doing / wanted.

now i know what i want. (to meet some cool people) and i know what i am doing now.

so i was wondering what site i should look at? witch one do YOU think is the best and why?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why bother paying for something you can get for free?

In the past, I have gone on POF. Have a well written profile with some standards of what you are looking for, and some decent pics and girls will contact you:

POF Adventures – Met girl at club for first date and took her home with me

Just need to troll through the undesirables.

Ultimately though, assuming that you live in a city of a decent size, you really should admit to yourself why you are really going online...

Stop using Internet Dating as a Buffer and grow a F@ckin’ Pair
 

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nothing wrong with dating sites. ive met tons of girls online and via dating sites. ive also met girls in real life .. theres not much difference to be honest. its both good. its kind of easier in real life cause online theres a lot of stuck up b1tches i admit.. but i did meet really nice girls online. you just need a lot of patience going through all those sh1tty profiles and rejections.
 

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runner83 said:
Why bother paying for something you can get for free?

In the past, I have gone on POF. Have a well written profile with some standards of what you are looking for, and some decent pics and girls will contact you:

POF Adventures – Met girl at club for first date and took her home with me

Just need to troll through the undesirables.

Ultimately though, assuming that you live in a city of a decent size, you really should admit to yourself why you are really going online...

Stop using Internet Dating as a Buffer and grow a F@ckin’ Pair

thanks man. i'm not really using this as an excuse no to meet girls. i forgot to mention in the OP i am moving to wales soon. so i thought i might try get a leg up and see who was out in wales n stuff. i thought maybe if i got some good rapor wit a girl. when i get over there maybe she could show me around n stuff.

but i will most likely try my profile up again. just cos i don't really have the money to go out all the time. i mean. if i did. i would need like... 50-100$ a night. it's really expensive to go out to clubs n stuff. so i will probs just do day game.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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