"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ok. i havw been on dating sites before and it hasn't worked. mainly cos my profile sucked and i had no idea what i was doing / wanted.

now i know what i want. (to meet some cool people) and i know what i am doing now.

so i was wondering what site i should look at? witch one do YOU think is the best and why?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why bother paying for something you can get for free?

In the past, I have gone on POF. Have a well written profile with some standards of what you are looking for, and some decent pics and girls will contact you:

POF Adventures – Met girl at club for first date and took her home with me

Just need to troll through the undesirables.

Ultimately though, assuming that you live in a city of a decent size, you really should admit to yourself why you are really going online...

Stop using Internet Dating as a Buffer and grow a F@ckin’ Pair
 
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nothing wrong with dating sites. ive met tons of girls online and via dating sites. ive also met girls in real life .. theres not much difference to be honest. its both good. its kind of easier in real life cause online theres a lot of stuck up b1tches i admit.. but i did meet really nice girls online. you just need a lot of patience going through all those sh1tty profiles and rejections.
 
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runner83 said:
Why bother paying for something you can get for free?

In the past, I have gone on POF. Have a well written profile with some standards of what you are looking for, and some decent pics and girls will contact you:

POF Adventures – Met girl at club for first date and took her home with me

Just need to troll through the undesirables.

Ultimately though, assuming that you live in a city of a decent size, you really should admit to yourself why you are really going online...

Stop using Internet Dating as a Buffer and grow a F@ckin’ Pair
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thanks man. i'm not really using this as an excuse no to meet girls. i forgot to mention in the OP i am moving to wales soon. so i thought i might try get a leg up and see who was out in wales n stuff. i thought maybe if i got some good rapor wit a girl. when i get over there maybe she could show me around n stuff.

but i will most likely try my profile up again. just cos i don't really have the money to go out all the time. i mean. if i did. i would need like... 50-100$ a night. it's really expensive to go out to clubs n stuff. so i will probs just do day game.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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