"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The best dating advice you can ever get

El Payaso

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“Just be yourself!”

“If it’s meant to be, it will be!”

“Just be confident – women like confidence!”

“You should ask her out!” (no details or specifics on how)

“Be a gentleman – women like gentlemen!”

“Just tell her how you feel – if she feels the same way, she’ll say so too!” :yes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yewki

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This advice is so good, it will change your life! I was finally able get my GED and start up my own mail order taxidermy business! I've gotten laid so many times, too. I have such a passion for dead animals.

Thanks, Mr. Dating Advice Guy!
 

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El Payaso said:
“Just be yourself!”

“If it’s meant to be, it will be!”

“Just be confident – women like confidence!”

“You should ask her out!” (no details or specifics on how)

“Be a gentleman – women like gentlemen!”

“Just tell her how you feel – if she feels the same way, she’ll say so too!” :yes:

Never ever tell a women you have feelings for her lol that's the worst thing you could ever do lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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devilkingx2

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tbh that's all good advice when you really think about it, observe:

El Payaso said:
“Just be yourself!”
if you copy someone or otherwise fake your personality
1) you'll be a cheap imitation of someone, a poor man's X
2) if you drop the act any girls who like you for the act will lose interest
3) if you keep the act, be prepared to indefinitely fake your personality to keep your girl
4) it's extremely unlikely you'll be able to completely keep up a fake persona in the long term, she'll eventually figure it out, or your real personality will slip through enough to turn her off
5) if she likes the real you... then there was no reason to fake anything, you wasted time and effort.

El Payaso said:
“If it’s meant to be, it will be!”
you know how we always say that a woman who wants to be with you will move mountains? that's more or less what that means.

El Payaso said:
“Just be confident – women like confidence!”
cowards, p*ssys, etc. probably don't get much women. being to afraid to talk to a girl/ask her out/make a move is also not going to get you anywhere

El Payaso said:
“You should ask her out!” (no details or specifics on how)
see above about being too cowardly to make moves and ask girls out

El Payaso said:
“Be a gentleman – women like gentlemen!”
okay this is complete BS. as long as you don't go out of your way to be an a-hole in a bad way then you're fine

El Payaso said:
“Just tell her how you feel – if she feels the same way, she’ll say so too!” :yes:
this is true, but crap advice. that would work out perfectly if she already liked you... and work out very badly if she doesn't.
 
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