"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The best dating advice you can ever get

El Payaso

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“Just be yourself!”

“If it’s meant to be, it will be!”

“Just be confident – women like confidence!”

“You should ask her out!” (no details or specifics on how)

“Be a gentleman – women like gentlemen!”

“Just tell her how you feel – if she feels the same way, she’ll say so too!” :yes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yewki

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This advice is so good, it will change your life! I was finally able get my GED and start up my own mail order taxidermy business! I've gotten laid so many times, too. I have such a passion for dead animals.

Thanks, Mr. Dating Advice Guy!
 

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El Payaso said:
“Just be yourself!”

“If it’s meant to be, it will be!”

“Just be confident – women like confidence!”

“You should ask her out!” (no details or specifics on how)

“Be a gentleman – women like gentlemen!”

“Just tell her how you feel – if she feels the same way, she’ll say so too!” :yes:

Never ever tell a women you have feelings for her lol that's the worst thing you could ever do lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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devilkingx2

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tbh that's all good advice when you really think about it, observe:

El Payaso said:
“Just be yourself!”
if you copy someone or otherwise fake your personality
1) you'll be a cheap imitation of someone, a poor man's X
2) if you drop the act any girls who like you for the act will lose interest
3) if you keep the act, be prepared to indefinitely fake your personality to keep your girl
4) it's extremely unlikely you'll be able to completely keep up a fake persona in the long term, she'll eventually figure it out, or your real personality will slip through enough to turn her off
5) if she likes the real you... then there was no reason to fake anything, you wasted time and effort.

El Payaso said:
“If it’s meant to be, it will be!”
you know how we always say that a woman who wants to be with you will move mountains? that's more or less what that means.

El Payaso said:
“Just be confident – women like confidence!”
cowards, p*ssys, etc. probably don't get much women. being to afraid to talk to a girl/ask her out/make a move is also not going to get you anywhere

El Payaso said:
“You should ask her out!” (no details or specifics on how)
see above about being too cowardly to make moves and ask girls out

El Payaso said:
“Be a gentleman – women like gentlemen!”
okay this is complete BS. as long as you don't go out of your way to be an a-hole in a bad way then you're fine

El Payaso said:
“Just tell her how you feel – if she feels the same way, she’ll say so too!” :yes:
this is true, but crap advice. that would work out perfectly if she already liked you... and work out very badly if she doesn't.
 
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