"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The best dating advice you can ever get

El Payaso

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“Just be yourself!”

“If it’s meant to be, it will be!”

“Just be confident – women like confidence!”

“You should ask her out!” (no details or specifics on how)

“Be a gentleman – women like gentlemen!”

“Just tell her how you feel – if she feels the same way, she’ll say so too!” :yes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yewki

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This advice is so good, it will change your life! I was finally able get my GED and start up my own mail order taxidermy business! I've gotten laid so many times, too. I have such a passion for dead animals.

Thanks, Mr. Dating Advice Guy!
 

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El Payaso said:
“Just be yourself!”

“If it’s meant to be, it will be!”

“Just be confident – women like confidence!”

“You should ask her out!” (no details or specifics on how)

“Be a gentleman – women like gentlemen!”

“Just tell her how you feel – if she feels the same way, she’ll say so too!” :yes:

Never ever tell a women you have feelings for her lol that's the worst thing you could ever do lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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devilkingx2

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tbh that's all good advice when you really think about it, observe:

El Payaso said:
“Just be yourself!”
if you copy someone or otherwise fake your personality
1) you'll be a cheap imitation of someone, a poor man's X
2) if you drop the act any girls who like you for the act will lose interest
3) if you keep the act, be prepared to indefinitely fake your personality to keep your girl
4) it's extremely unlikely you'll be able to completely keep up a fake persona in the long term, she'll eventually figure it out, or your real personality will slip through enough to turn her off
5) if she likes the real you... then there was no reason to fake anything, you wasted time and effort.

El Payaso said:
“If it’s meant to be, it will be!”
you know how we always say that a woman who wants to be with you will move mountains? that's more or less what that means.

El Payaso said:
“Just be confident – women like confidence!”
cowards, p*ssys, etc. probably don't get much women. being to afraid to talk to a girl/ask her out/make a move is also not going to get you anywhere

El Payaso said:
“You should ask her out!” (no details or specifics on how)
see above about being too cowardly to make moves and ask girls out

El Payaso said:
“Be a gentleman – women like gentlemen!”
okay this is complete BS. as long as you don't go out of your way to be an a-hole in a bad way then you're fine

El Payaso said:
“Just tell her how you feel – if she feels the same way, she’ll say so too!” :yes:
this is true, but crap advice. that would work out perfectly if she already liked you... and work out very badly if she doesn't.
 
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