I've read about these neg hits of yours and it got me thinking about an ability I already have. I'm the king of back handed complements. I can you how great you look but you also look like crack hoe. If my friend broke up with his girlfriend I could say something like "You can do way better then that ugly b1tch. Besides you two would have horrible looking kids." That's an extreme example but would something not as harsh work well as a neg hit?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The Back Handed complement
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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That's pretty funny actually.
Remember, it's all in how you say it.
I'd say that with a big grin on my face.
Remember, it's all in how you say it.
I'd say that with a big grin on my face.
wjh
Master Don Juan
from tom leykis:
"i love thick girls" - that's pretty subtle, no girl WANTS to be 'thick' (i.e., chubby), society places the most value on a thin/lean girl but because you said you LOVE thick girls, you're golden...
"i love thick girls" - that's pretty subtle, no girl WANTS to be 'thick' (i.e., chubby), society places the most value on a thin/lean girl but because you said you LOVE thick girls, you're golden...
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
One of my friends have this phrase we use to describe women, "She has the body of a goddess and a face to protect it with". Anyway I used that phrase around one of my other friends so he thought it would be cool to tell his girlfriend that.
My friend who is a natural uses them all the time.
My friend who is a natural uses them all the time.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
My friend that coined the phrase doesn't actually say it to a woman's face but one of my buddies said it to his beautiful Argintinian girlfriend.