"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"The average number of sexual partners for men in a lifetime is 7. For women, it is 4

bigjohnson

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slaog said:
When reading the title of the thread most people presume its the mean. Where did it say the 'median' in the title?
5 seconds with google will get a link to the study, which is done by the National Center for Health Statistics and the summary states median 4 and median 7, women and men respectively. Median is almost always used because it's a better representative value than mean in most non-Gaussian distributions of data.

To come up with your broken-ass argument, one would have to assume the good people at the National Center for Health Statistics hired a bunch of scientists whose grasp of math is worse than a bright fifth grader to do the analysis. Then those idiots published a paper for peer review with horribly broken math.

If that seems likely to one, then I'd say one is of diminished mental capacity.


There have been some solid arguments against the numbers but yours was not one of that group.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's the average for men that are good with women, attractive women, and then all others? 7 & 4 might be sound numbers for those who aren't desirable or that lack game.
 

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bigjohnson said:
5 seconds with google will get a link to the study, which is done by the National Center for Health Statistics and the summary states median 4 and median 7, women and men respectively. Median is almost always used because it's a better representative value than mean in most non-Gaussian distributions of data.

To come up with your broken-ass argument, one would have to assume the good people at the National Center for Health Statistics hired a bunch of scientists whose grasp of math is worse than a bright fifth grader to do the analysis. Then those idiots published a paper for peer review with horribly broken math.

If that seems likely to one, then I'd say one is of diminished mental capacity.


There have been some solid arguments against the numbers but yours was not one of that group.

In my last post I've shown how you have made yourself look like an idiot. :D


Your behaviour is seriously AFC. Wanting to be right, argueing and insulting people over figures and getting worked up over it. You're also trying to get an ego boost by trying to make others look below you but thats not working and its real AFC behaviour.


You need to ask yourself WHY this is happening. You've been a member of SS since feb 07 and you're still acting AFC. If you need any advise in understanding it better and breaking out of that mentality just ask. :up:
 

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slaog said:
In my last post I've shown how you have made yourself look like an idiot. :D

Not wanting to be right, it's being right and knowing it. There's nothing average about me that matters ;)
 

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Nutz said:
What's the average for men that are good with women, attractive women, and then all others? 7 & 4 might be sound numbers for those who aren't desirable or that lack game.
I think the data also included people of all ages (you should check if you care), so (1) some are not finished playing humpity hump and (2) some came from a more conservative time. The NCHS study was very specific; What is the number of sex partners for Americans age X-Y.

Not "lifetime"* partners or whatever, it's simply walk out your door, look at a woman, if she's typical, she's been ridden by 4 guys. Obviously statistics do not REALLY predict individual outcomes, but you get the idea.

*As in, not predicting. It's so far in their lifetime IIRC.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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